A Crossdresser’s Confession: Why I Love Going Out En-Femme?

Hello, lovelies! Today, I brought for you a little confession on my part. Today’s story is different from usual. I’ll be talking about all the nice feelings that awake in me when I go out clubbing dressed en-femme to the nines.

Perhaps it will help you loosen up and take a bigger bite at what life has to offer!

If you are a regular reader, then you are familiar with this section of the blog.

Here, my sisters and I tell real-life cross-dressing experiences that we faced in our lives.

The point of it is to inspire you to live more freely!

Please keep reading to find out my take on clubbing en-femme, and go rock that dance floor yourself!

Clothes Make the Wo(Man)

I’m sure you heard that expression before, and it’s as true as it gets.

This means that the way a person dresses projects a lot to the outside world. But clothes have a bigger impact on the inside.

Many gals dealing with gender dysphoria, like me, start wearing feminine clothes, and it instantly makes us feel better.

That is because we reflect our inner selves through our clothing.

Taking male clothes off feels like getting rid of an uncomfortable costume.

On the other hand, wearing cute and frilly stuff is like regaining control of ourselves and our skin.

I believe every trans folk has felt similar enough to relate at some point in their lives.

If you want to, you can read this other article that explains why we feel powerful when we are dressed up.

I firmly believe that there’s a point in life where all that energy needs to come out.

Letting Your Inner Self Shine Through

Leaving with gender dysphoria is like being a prisoner of your own body.

On top of that, there is this weight of the obligations and standards that the outside world expects from you.

Something impossible to accomplish due to our take on life and of ourselves.

Getting in contact with oneself is a millennium-old tradition that is key to a healthy mind.

I believe there are a million ways to do so, but it all comes down to enjoying and being true to yourself.

That means if you feel feminine, you need to allow yourself the chance to express that femininity in whichever way makes you the happiest.

I know it’s hard for many, but every baby step, even in the privacy of your home, helps mitigate that sense of being lost in the world.

Letting your inner woman come out is something you can’t afford to do.

The Empowering Feeling of the Dancefloor

I’ve got another confession for you: I never liked nightclubs when I was a teen.

I only went out dancing with friends just to belong. Not because I would’ve been ignored otherwise.

But because it is just what teens are supposed to do, I played along.

There were some not-so-terrible nights, but overall, it was a drag for me.

I pretty much preferred going to a friend’s house and enjoying our party.

Who would’ve said back then that I started loving going out clubbing in my adulthood?

Now, I feel the most intense thrill every time I go out dancing. I feel secure, powerful, and sexy! I love the mystery.

The cover of the night adds up and boosts my confidence even more after a full makeover! And that’s not even all of it!

Girls Just Want to Have Fun!

It’s my girly side that enjoys these kinds of outings. And when I do go out dancing, nine out of ten times, I do so en-femme.

This thrill that I get out of it can’t compare to much else.

The darkness of the night and the confusing club environment helped me channel a lot of this feminine energy.

Womanly feelings and thoughts that have always inhabited my mind are free, and I love it.

Letting loose all these powerful emotions through music is like a ritual to feminine nature within ourselves.

Plus, I’ve been enjoying the latest music trends much more than the ones when I was I teen.

There are many more empowering songs by women, which also adds to this wonderful experience!

Helps a lot to start going out to LGBTQ+-friendly clubs where you can feel more secure.

But the truth is that most don’t even care. It’s just a matter of how you feel more secure!

Well, sisters, this is my little confession and my take on one of the things that help me deal with my gender dysphoria the most.

I hope I have reached out to you and inspired you to let your inner girly energy flow freely within you!

Please let me know in the comment below what you do to feel the power of your feminine energy!

Everyone’s different and has their own way of expressing themselves.

That’s what we are celebrating next month, the beauty and pòwer of diversity and love!

Take good care, gals! See you soon!

Written by Tina Munova.