What Do Crossdressers Want?

As male crossdressers, there’re so many things people imagine we want. But, what do we really want? In most cases, the things people think we want are wrong. They end up judging us wrongly.

From attention to acceptance, as crossdressers, we want to be seen and heard. We want to feel like we’re a part of something, whether it’s a group, a community, or even the world at large. We want to feel connected to others and, most importantly, to feel accepted for who we are. 

So often, we’re told that we’re weird, that we’re freakish, and that we’re not normal. We’re made to feel like outcasts, which can be incredibly isolating. Below are some of the things we want as crossdressers.

1. To be accepted for who we are

As crossdressers, we want to be accepted for who we are. Most people see us as weird or freaks, but we just want to be accepted like everyone else. We’re not trying to be something we’re not. We’re just expressing ourselves in a way that makes us feel comfortable.

● How do we achieve acceptance for who we are as male crossdressers?

1. Education

First, through education. We must let the world know that we’re just like them, except that we express our femininity in a way that is outside the societal norm. We must show them that we’re not freaks or weirdos but just regular people who enjoy dressing up in women’s clothes.

2. Advocacy

Second, we must fight for our rights to be who we are through advocacy. We must speak out against discrimination and stand up for our right to live our lives as we want.

3. Visibility

And finally, through visibility. We must show the world that we’re here and not going anywhere. Let’s be proud and show the world that there is nothing wrong with being a crossdresser.

So remember that we must fight for acceptance for who we are as crossdressers. And if we stand together, we can achieve it.

2. To feel comfortable in our skin

We want to be able to feel comfortable in our skin. Many of us male-to-female crossdressers feel like we’re in the wrong body, and dressing up helps us feel more comfortable in our skin.

1. How to feel comfortable in our skin

The first thing is accepting ourselves for who we are. It’s okay to be different; there’s nothing wrong with being a crossdresser. 

Another way to feel comfortable in our skin is by dressing up. When we dress up (crossdress), we can express ourselves in a way that we feel comfortable with, which puts us in touch with our feminity. We can just be ourselves, and that’s all that matters.

Of course, it’s not always easy to accept ourselves for who we are, but it’s important to remember that there’s nothing wrong with being a crossdresser. We’re just like everyone else and deserve to be accepted for who we are. We’re beautiful, intelligent, and daring.

3. To be able to express ourselves freely

We want to be able to express ourselves freely without judgment. Whether it’s through the clothes we wear, the way we style our hair, or the makeup we put on, we just want to be able to express ourselves without being judged. We should be able to do what makes us happy without judgment from others.

1. How can we express ourselves freely as crossdressers?

First, we need to be confident in who we are. We need to know that we are fabulous and can express ourselves however we want. Second, we need to find our style. Whether through clothes, makeup, or hair, we need to find what makes us feel fabulous. Lastly, we should never be afraid to be ourselves. We should always be confident and proud of who we are.

4. To dress how we want, without judgment. 

We want to dress how we want, without judgment from others. We should be able to wear lingerie, pantyhose, breast forms, wigs, heels, etc., without people thinking we’re weird or strange.

1. Is it possible for us to dress how we want?

Well, yes. We can dress how we want, but we will probably always receive some judgment and rejection from others. That’s just the way it is. We can’t control what other people think or say about us, but we can control how we react.

If someone judges us for dressing how we want, we should just brush it off and keep being our fabulous selves. We shouldn’t let anyone else’s opinion stop us from living our lives the way we want.

So, to all the crossdressers out there, keep being you, and don’t let anyone else’s opinion stop you from looking fabulous and being happy. 

5. To feel confident and beautiful

We want to feel confident and beautiful in who we are. Crossdressers at times, tend to feel insecure, but we just want to feel confident and beautiful. We should be able to love ourselves for who we are and not let the judgment of others bring us down. This has to deal with our mental health and how well we can handle negativity.

1. What to do if we don’t feel beautiful enough?

As crossdressers, we should love ourselves for who we are and never let anyone else’s negative opinion bring us down. We are all beautiful in our way, and that is what makes us special.

So, if you’re ever feeling down about yourself, just remember that you are gorgeous just the way you are. Crossdressers are some of the most confident and beautiful people you’ll ever meet. Therefore, we should all strive to be like that.

6. Be able to be ourselves around others 

We want to be ourselves around others without feeling like we have to hide who we are. We should be able to be open about our crossdressing and not feel like we have to keep it a secret.

1. How can we be ourselves even when others don’t approve of our lifestyle?

Well, we probably don’t approve of everyone’s way of life, but that doesn’t mean we can’t co-exist. Therefore, we can’t also expect everyone to agree with our way of life. However, we don’t have to force our lifestyle on others or try to make them accept us. We can just live our lives as we want and be happy with who we are. Then we can hope that they catch up with us by getting past stereotypical beliefs.

7. To find acceptance from loved ones

We want to find acceptance from our loved ones. Many crossdressers tend to feel like they’re alone, but we just want to find acceptance from our loved ones. We should be able to find love and support from the ones we love, no matter what.

But if a loved one chooses not to love us back, they’re not worth our time. It’ll be a disappointing experience, but you’ll be just fine. We should move on and find others who will love and accept us for who we are. There’s no use in forcing someone to love us when they have no intention to.

8. To be happy and content with who we are

We just want to be happy and content with who we are. As crossdressers, we shouldn’t have to change who we are to please others. We should be able to love ourselves for who we are and be able to freely express our feminity while being content with that. We want to be open about our crossdressing and not have to worry about being judged or discriminated against.

Having been a crossdresser for the better part of my life, I know one or two things that a newbie doesn’t. As closet queens, we want to be accepted for who we are. It can be a difficult thing to openly express our femininity or openly say “I’m a crossdresser” to the world. But it’s something that we feel strongly about. We want to be able to dress up and feel pretty without judgment from others.