The Dildo Training for Femgay Crossdressers

Choosing a dildo can be a very overwhelming task for femgay crossdressers, especially when we are excited and horny.

Visiting a sex toys website and seeing literally thousands of different-sized and styled cocks can be intimidating.

Some of them are bigger, some are smaller, some are cute and lovely, and some are scary to even think about taking in.

Look, dildos come in all different shapes, designs, colors, and sizes.

But which one is the best dildo for femgay crossdressers for dildo training?

Well, there is no particular answer to it.

Suppose you are an anal pro like me; we go for big dildos, and beginner femgays should always start with smaller dildos.

In this guide, I will help all you femgay crossdressers choose a dildo so you can have confident and safe dildo training.

We’ll be talking about dildos that range from small to lusciously gigantic sizes.

Dildos for Anal Training

Taking a dick inside the butt for the first time can be a very stressful and embarrassing experience.

Now you must be thinking, why is that?

You see, our butts need to be prepared before anal sex.

If we directly take in the cock, our butt muscles don’t know how to react to it, and this might end up being a painful experience.

The same logic is applied to dildos.

An average size dildo or anything bigger than that can cause pain in the ass for first-timers to anal play.

A lot of femgay crossdressers fantasize about girthy eight-inch BBCs, but that’s something we can only enjoy if there is proper training and work done on anal muscles prior to that.

If you are not ready to put in the work, forget anal, babe.

Getting Started with Anal Training

Luckily, we have trainer dildos. Trainer dildos are basically small dildos and butt plugs.

The reason why they are used for anal training is that these little dildos are smaller than the average penis, which makes it very easy to take in as a beginner femgay crossdresser.

Once our anal muscles get accustomed to these smaller dildos, we can gradually move up to bigger sizes, training our asses to get used to bigger sizes.

We can buy smaller-size butt plugs from any online and offline store.

Make sure the butt plug you are buying has petite proportions to have comfortable anal fun in the initial days.

Small dildos are a good way to get started with anal training.

How Do I Choose the Right Dildo?

Personally, I like to experiment with different styles and sizes of dildos, so I fuck with multiple types of dildos.

A lot of it depends on my mood, too.

Sometimes, I feel like just lying down on my couch, and for a small, slow, erotic show, I put in a small or medium-sized dildo.

But there are days when I feel horny, so I just go all in with a much bigger size, fat meat-sized dildo.

Keep in mind that I have been doing dildo anal sex for quite a while now, so my anal muscles are used to even bigger-sized dildos.

I wouldn’t recommend you experiment with bigger sizes of dildos if you are a beginner femgay crossdresser.

You need to tame your slut inside, tell her to slow down a bit.

Start with smaller ones, take your time, and then gradually move up to bigger boys, I mean toys.

I am sure one day you will make your mama proud, sissy.

Different Types of Dildos for Femgay Crossdressers

When it comes to variety in dildos, these bad boys—or should I say toys—come in a wide range of materials, colors, sizes, etc.

Some of the dildos also come with extra features for kinky femgay crossdressers like you and me.

Speaking of color, it’s a never-ending spectrum, babe.

From realistic-looking black dildos to neon pink, rainbow, and even glass dildos, the range of dildos is really wild.

Here are nine common types of dildos you can easily find on the internet.

Strap-on Dildos

These Strap-on dildos can be strapped around the waist, resembling the movement of a real dick.

Strap-on dildos are mainly used by femdoms to fuck their sissies and femgay crossdressers.

Hard Dildos

OMG, the name gets me excited.

Hard dildos, as the name suggests, are hard in feel because they are made with non-flexible materials like stainless steel, glass, or even crystal, which are quite bougie.

Harder dildos have a very smooth surface.

Just some lube on these and harder dildos can be amazing for some anal fun.

Vibrating Dildos

What comes to your kinky femgay mind when you think of vibrating dildos?

Extra stimulation and extra fun. Vibrating dildos are made of silicone and consist of a bullet vibrator motor inside.

Yes, these are a bit more expensive than normal dildos.

Soft Dildos

Yes, babe, you guessed it right, these are soft to the touch, resembling the feel of a real cock when touched.

Soft dildos are typically made of flexible and squishy material like silicone.

It’s very important to apply sufficient lube on soft dildos for a smooth experience.

Representational Dildos

Hmm, what are these?

Representational dildos look exactly like a cock. That’s why they are also called realistic dildos.

These dildos are so exotic by design, I can’t even tell, babe, just like a human penis with veins and all—some even have testicles to gobble up.

Non-representational Dildos

Non-representational dildos are just the opposite of representational dildos, meaning these don’t necessarily look like a penis.

These dildos have a very subtle, rounded design that looks very kinky and cute.

Non-representational dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and colors.

I guess that’s the reason which makes these so popular among femgay crossdressers.

Suction Cup Dildos

Suction cup dildos have a suction cup at the base, enabling them to stick to a surface or a wall.

I attach my suction cup dildo to the wall for hands-free penetration. Yes, the movement is exactly what you are thinking. Haha

Double-ended Dildos

Double-ended dildos are made for couples. We can use these with our partners both vaginally and anally.

So if you and your partner are both bottom femgays, double-ended dildos are perfect for use.

Pack-and-play Dildos

Pack-and-play dildos are just prosthetics that can be worn under the pants with the help of a harness to create a realistic bulge or pack.

Again, these are used by femdoms to tease their sissies.

Pack-and-play dildos get erected when pants are removed.

How Do I Use My Dildo

Lubing up the ass and dildo

As a femgay crossdresser, I always follow this rule before inserting the dildo inside my butt.

The usage of lube depends on the material type of the dildo I am using.

Every dildo comes with instructions included, mentioning information about which lubes are usable with that specific dildo.

So I make sure to cover the dildo and my anal hole in the mentioned lube to avoid pain and irritation in the ass.

Trust me, babe, lube makes it so much better.

Another tip that I share with every new femgay crossdresser is to start slow.

Our anal hole is very delicate and not used to taking things in.

So be nice to her and insert dildos with gentle hands.

Here is how I do it: I take a deep breath first to relax my body and anal muscles.

After this, I slowly insert the dildo inside my butt hole, remember, slowly.

After this, when I feel like it has gone deep enough, I find a rhythm to do the inside-out motion.

After-care of Dildo Training

• After I cum, I just take the dildo out and relax, cherishing the sissygasm I had.

This gives my anal muscles time to ease up.

• After every use, I wash my dildo carefully and make sure nothing stays on it.

After washing, I remove the water by tap-tap cleaning with a cotton cloth.

• I keep my dildos away from sharp objects so that nothing can distort or scratch their body.

The most important thing is when I notice some discomfort or uneasiness, the reason could be anything.

It could be a bad stomach, muscles might not respond, etc.—I just stop. Safety over fun always.

Conclusion

As a femgay crossdresser, our sexual life is incomplete without dildos.

For some of us, these dildos have given us our first orgasms.

I personally like everything about dildos, their kinky dick-like shape, the touch of them, and the feeling they give me when inside my butt.

I mean, wow. But this didn’t happen in one day. Dildos are great for sexual pleasure, but only if we know how to use them.

That’s why proper training on how to use dildos, which dildo to select, and, most importantly, aftercare should be prioritized; otherwise, anal sex is not that fun at all.

So I want you to follow all rules as a femgay crossdresser to enjoy the heavenly anal sex.