Indulging Your Feminine Personality and Energy(MTF Crossdressing Tips)

Hello, lovelies! How are you doing today? Looking for ways in which to indulge and enjoy your femininity? Then this article is for you! Today we are going to see many ways in which you can not only further develop your feminine energy but also get more comfortable with it. We are going to explore some ideas like signing up for a course or training your feminine skills.

Many crossdressers find a blockage when they start exploring their femininity. Whether it is to self-imposed restrictions, fear, or lack of ideas, this can become a burden in everyone’s life. Without further ado, let’s explore what options we have to potentiate our inner femininity!

Listening Girly Music

Music has a strong impact on your psyche. It has been used by humans since the beginning of time to induce powerful mind states or emotions. With this in mind, listening to “girly” music can help you get in touch with your feminine side for long periods. Not only that but you will also achieve a deeper connection with this part of yourself. By “girly” music I refer mostly to songs that inspire you to dance or talk about any feminine feeling. Of course, you will be the one that ultimately decides what tunes work best for you. In general, the Pop genre is a commonplace to go.

Some of my personal recommendations include Britney Spears, Little Mix, Beyoncé, Kim Petras, and Marina and the Diamonds, to name a few. I found out that K-Pop girl bands’ songs and videos are incredible to reach my inner girl!

Signing Up for a Feminine Course

One of the best ways that I found in my experience to develop my feminine side is taking some courses. The important thing here is that you listen to your inner woman and ask her what makes her happy. In the same manner, as with the music, you and only you will know how to deepen that connection with your femininity. In my case, taking a dance class has got me hooked on the feeling of expressing my feminine side. I joined a mostly-female class so I wouldn’t have to worry about learning the male part. You will find yourself each time more comfortable with your femininity. I also made some good friends there with whom to share other feminine experiences. You don’t need to go full en-femme to classes! You can go in male mode and start getting to know other people however you feel most comfortable!

A dance class may be the most obvious choice to develop your femininity but it is far from the only one. Many other courses will serve the same purpose. Like I said before, you must listen to your womanly voice and hear what inspires it the most. Not an overly feminine class, but I also joined a pottery workshop that allowed me to decorate my place with all kinds of cute self-made cups, flower pots, and such! Needless to say, most of them are pink! Another activity that I’m planning to do whenever I find the time for it, is learning to make my own lingerie. Sewing, make-up, or cosmetics class are all good options. Remember to listen to yourself to know the best one for you!

But… I Haven’t Come Out Yet and I’m Too Shy for a Class!

Don’t worry gals that I got you covered! Better saying, the internet has got us covered! I understand perfectly that for many crossdressers out there it can be quite a challenge signing up for a class. I’m one who believes that coming out is a big positive change for everyone. At least with a selected few people of trust. With their love by your side, you will feel happier living free and doing the things you like. You can also reach out through the web and make friends online which will help you enjoy your crossdressing lifestyle! There are many posts in this blog on websites where you can sign up for free and start building new friendships! But today I want to talk more about another powerful utility of the Internet: billions of courses on everything!

If you are a frequent reader of this site, I’m pretty sure that you’ve acquired a new skill or two here. Or maybe picked up a useful tip from a post. Luckily for all the shy gals, there are plenty of courses and classes online that you can take. Whatever you are looking to learn, there are many free and paid options. A quick search on the web or YouTube will give you many interesting and useful results. In fact, I have started learning a lot of things online that prepared me for taking a real class or course. There are tons of dancing lessons and choreography tutorials on YouTube if you want to shake your body a little. Just search for the style or song you want to learn to dance and voila! This is a great way to give you the first steps to the beat!

Where Can I Search For Courses or Classes?

But then again, it depends very much on what you are looking to learn. Maybe a pottery class can be more difficult to take online. But a sewing or lingerie-making course is easier to take at your home. The things required to take an online makeup class are very easy to get. And it’s a very useful skill for every crossdresser. Some great sites to look for courses are Coursera, Skillshare, or ALISON. And of course, YouTube has many free tutorials on tons of topics.

Listen to your inner woman and start nurturing her with new skills and knowledge! Needless to say, search on a web browser to learn if there’s a specific site to learn what you are looking for. The Internet is a big place full of people willing to share their skills. I’m sure that there are many sites on every subject where you can learn everything about them!

Building Up Your Wardrobe

An obvious and fun must-do for all crossdressers, alas, perhaps the most expensive one. There isn’t much crossdressing without proper clothes. I’m sure you are already building your feminine closet or have plans to do so. But we face reality when the checkout screen appears and our bank accounts fall short. I’ve learned, in due time, that there won’t be a sufficient salary that covers completely my desire for new feminine clothes. And I’m sure you will feel the same unless you are sitting on top of a gold mine. I started dedicating 10/15 percent of my monthly income to buying new clothes and achieving great results.

Little I need to add about how wonderful we all think feminine clothes are and how we enjoy them. But I thought it would be great to share my method with all of you! Lastly, remember to build a varied closet so you have lots of options to wear!

Making Female Friends

In my personal experience, having female friends has always helped me to feel close to my feminine side. The conversion topics, the mannerisms, and the general way women handle themselves amongst friends is very different from the dynamics a group of male friends presents. Surrounding yourself with female friends will give you the chance to pay attention to their mannerisms and fashion sense.

You can incorporate them into your life later on. If you have none or few girlfriends, you should start with the previous point and sign up for a class to make some.

Signing Up for a Feminization Program

There are many online services that offer feminization training programs online. Some of them are paid, but there are many others that are free. A quick search on the web will throw the most popular ones. The truth is that this may sound a little extreme if you are unfamiliar with them, but most are harmless and you will have nothing to worry about. These programs will help you get in touch and develop further your feminine side. Through tasks, activities, and encouragement, you will be guided toward a world full of pink and feminine feelings! Alternatively, you can make your own program if you’ve been dwelling in this world for a long time. I wrote a previous post on how you can create your regime, so you can feel comfortable with it and achieve better results. Remember the power of sex toys!

As you can see, there are many options you can choose from when strengthening your connection with your feminine side. Hypnotic tapes can have a powerful effect on eliminating some preconceptions that may hold back your feminization. I hope you have found this article useful! But what about you? What is your favorite method to channel your feminine energy? Do you know of any other technique that should be on this list? Please let me know in the comment below! See you all soon, lovelies!

Written by Tina Munova.