Best Date Ideas for Crossdresser on Valentine’s Day

Are you a crossdresser and looking for ideas for this Valentine’s Day? Then you have come to the right place. For many of us, enjoying Valentine’s Day as we want may come with some obstacles. Today we are going to explore some ideas for you to enjoy this lovely day at its fullest! Whether you are a single crossdresser or have a partner, I’m sure you are going to find some viable plan here!

Celebrating love is something that we should do each day. Nonetheless, Valentine’s Day offers us an excellent excuse to spend it with our one and only. Besides some classic dates like going to the cinema or a nice restaurant, there are many and quieter options to spend and seize this wonderful day. If you are not sure what to do on February’s 14th, then keep reading and hopefully you will find inspiration for a dream date.

Let’s get our fears and prejudices out of the way and enjoy ourselves as we really wish. Keep reading this article if you are one of those who wait for this day all year long and don’t have any idea of what to do. Long live the love!

1. Going Out on a Date

It’s only natural to go on a date right? If you have someone in your life who knows that you’re a crossdresser and want to enjoy going out en-femme, this is a perfect opportunity. If you are still shy about going out while dressed you can go somewhere either quiet or in a town nearby. It is a wonderful experience going to dinner somewhere fancy in your most glamorous outfit. Complete the look and stream of feminine feelings with a nice set of lingerie for a perfect night ending. Let your inner woman out and enjoy it like you always wanted!

If your partner doesn’t know that you’re a crossdresser, I suggest that you avoid surprising her/him by appearing out of the blue in feminine clothes. It can result in a welcoming acceptance and he/she may love it. But the truth is that odds are against you. My advice is that if you think the relationship is getting serious, you should tell your partner before giving her/him a surprise of this kind. You have time to plan this in advance and find the moment to tell him/her your secret and that you would love to spend Valentine’s Day as a lady.

Dinner can be complemented with a romantic movie at a theater or continued at a friendly nightclub. I recommend that you make sure the place(s) where you are going are safe and bigot policies won’t ruin your date. Also, on dates like this it is very likely that many places are fully booked. So if you have a particular restaurant or hotel that you wish to go to, it is wise to make a reservation in advance.

2. Home Date

For a crossdresser that doesn’t feel sure yet going out en-femme, a quite evening at your place or your partner’s is a great way to enjoy a date where you feel most comfortable. If you want to feel feminine and make a grand gesture of love for your partner, making dinner is a great way to do it. For the menu, I think it is best to prepare your partner’s favorite dish if it isn’t too much of a heavy meal. Why am I saying this? Because if either of you ends up really full, you won’t be in the mood for some later fun if you know what I mean. Nonetheless, there are many alternatives for making any meal lighter. If you want to go all out, making something for dessert is like putting the cherry on top, almost literally.

Don’t forget to dress the part and avoid old clothes even when cooking. You can get a lovely apron for when you are in the kitchen and still look like a lovely wife while cooking for your loved one. Making the dessert and all the preparations needed for the meal beforehand will allow you to spend more time enjoying your date and less worrying about anything going sideways. Besides, there are less chances to ruin the outfit you are planning to wear. Another great idea for a home date is making some drinks as appetizers. It’s very difficult, to not say impossible, that your partner doesn’t feel loved with all this!

3. Out of the Box Ideas for a Date

We have seen some of the classic options for a Valentine’s Day date. But being original with some fun activity that you both enjoy is another viable alternative. Think of something that you both enjoy and make the arrangements for it. Going out on a picnic or camping trip somewhere quiet is also a great way to ensure quality time with your couple. Being undisturbed with each other is a fantastic way not only to strengthen the bond you have, but also it works wonders in rekindling the flame between you two.

Going on an escapade to a hotel will work as well, but being around other people may disrupt the chemistry in times when you only want to be with each other. If neither of you likes spending the night out in the open, renting a cabin somewhere near will assure you a more private environment for you. This way you can be sure you both feel more at home and guarantee a lovely time. While away, you can find time to make romantic gestures for each other. Be it reading/writing poems for each other, cooking, or exchanging heartfelt gifts, the important thing is that you enjoy a quality time together away from routine.

The Art Enthusiast

Another great idea if you are both into art, is going to the theater to see a show that you are both into. Be it a classic opera, a ballet performance, or a play will ensure you an undisturbed night as it is very likely that you won’t  draw attention to yourself. These kinds of events, very much like cinema itself, will grant you privacy and offer you an opportunity to dress more glamorous than the cinema. In addition, making the gift yourself is a touching and sweet gesture that will make your partner feel loved! Of course gifts are all but primary. The greatest gift you can give each other is unconditional love and support no matter what!

4. Going Out with Friends

Being single doesn’t necessarily mean that you should spend this day on your own! If you have any friend with whom you share your crossdressing you can go out together! Love comes in many ways and friendship is one of them. And we can celebrate this kind of love as well! Either going to a pub or a nightclub is a great way to seize the opportunity to meet someone. Besides, it is becoming quite a common tradition for people to host or go to Valentine’s Day parties. If this is something that you can find nearby, it is usually safer and more predictable than going to a nightclub. That is of course if you know who is hosting the party.

Hosting

Also, if you are a sociable crossdresser and have a place where to do it, you can host the event yourself! This way you can almost guarantee the kind of ambience and people you feel most comfortable with. Many of the people that are single will be going out to find someone to spend the night with. If going out is your cup of tea, all the previous considerations apply. Making sure you are going to a friendly and safe place will help you to feel more comfortable and ensure that you are not getting in any kind of danger. That’s why it is always safer to go with someone.

In addition, be mindful of how much booze you drink. Things can get out of control very quickly for a crossdresser with high heels and alcohol in the mix. Add a dark and confusing environment and you can make a pretty clear scenario of what you will be dealing with. Whether you are looking to meet someone, a fleeting romance or just have fun with friends, festivities like this are ideal for it.

Final Thoughts

As a crossdresser there are many ways to spend Valentine’s Day with your couple or friends. Celebrating life and love as we should do each day. Nonetheless, in these all but quiet times we forget the true meaning of love and sharing. That’s why there is no point in arguing whether this day is purely a commercial date and seize the opportunity to remind ourselves and the ones we love how much they mean to us. So, what do you think of these ideas? Do you have any others that you think should be on mentioned? Do you have something already planned for Valentine’s Day? I would love to know in the comments below. Thanks a lot for reading and wish you all that you find the love you are looking for in your life! See you soon darlings!

Written by Tina Munova