Mistakes That Can Ruin Your Feminine Image as an Mtf Crossdresser

As MtF crossdressers, if we are not careful, our common body language mistakes that can easily give away our masculine energy and ruin our feminine image. There’re a few things we need to be mindful of when it comes to our body language. After all, body language accounts for more than 50% of our impression on people!

Constantly checking our phones, fidgeting, not maintaining eye contact and poor posture are all body language mistakes. As an MTF crossdresser, it’s important to be aware of the way we carry ourselves and the message our body language is sending.

When it comes to your feminine image, your body language plays a big role. Avoid these common mistakes to ensure you’re putting your best foot forward.

1. Fidgeting with your hands or clothes

This can come across as nervous or unsure of yourself. Instead, keep your hands still and avoid fidgeting with your clothing when crossdressed. You can also try holding a purse or clutch to help keep your hands from fidgeting. As a closet queen, I am very particular about my hands and how I present them.

2. Looking down at the ground

When you make eye contact with someone, it shows that you’re confident and interested in what they have to say. Looking down at the ground can make you appear disinterested or shy. Instead, try to make eye contact with the person you’re talking to. It’ll make the conversation flow more smoothly, and you’ll come across as more confident.

Making eye contact can help the conversation flow more smoothly. If you’re finding it difficult to make eye contact, try focusing on the person’s forehead or chin instead of their eyes.

Looking down at the ground can also give the impression that you’re shy or not very confident with your crossdressing. Keeping your composure will make it easier to carry on a conversation.

3. Slouching or crossing your legs when sitting

This makes you appear like you’re not confident or comfortable in your own skin. Instead, try to sit up straight and avoid crossing your legs. You can also try to take up more space by sitting with your legs just slightly apart. This will give off the impression that you know what you’re doing and that you’re comfortable in your own skin.

4. Constantly checking your phone

This can make you appear disinterested or unengaged in the conversation. It’s a good idea to put your phone away so you can focus on the person you’re talking to or hanging out with.

As a closet queen, you want to be sure to keep your phone close by in case you get a text or call from your friends. But, if you’re constantly checking it during a conversation, it makes you appear disinterested. This isn’t an admired feminine trait. So, try to put your phone away unless you’re expecting a call or text.

5. Biting your nails

This is a common nervous habit that can make crossdressers appear insecure or anxious. If you bite your nails, try to keep them short so you’re less tempted to bite. You can also try to keep a nail file or nail polish handy, so you can take your mind off of biting your nails.

If you can’t seem to stop biting your nails, it might be time to seek help from a mental health professional. This habit may be a sign of an underlying anxiety disorder. Treating your anxiety can help you to stop biting your nails.

6. Shaking your leg or tapping your fingers

This is another common nervous habit that can make a crossdresser appear fidgety and uncomfortable. If you shake your leg or tap your fingers, try to keep them still and avoid moving them around unnecessarily.

As an MTF crossdresser, try to keep your legs still and avoid crossing and uncrossing them too much. Also, don’t fidget with your fingers or play with your jewelry.

7. Not smiling

Smiling is a universal sign of happiness and friendliness. If you’re not smiling, you may come across as unhappy with your crossdressing. Instead, try to smile when you’re talking to someone. It’ll make you appear more approachable and likable. It will also make you look beautiful.

As a crossdresser myself, I often have to put on a big, fake smile for the audience. But I make it look real. It’s exhausting, but it’s part of what makes me lovable.

So, if you’re not feeling like smiling today, that’s totally okay. Just remember that your resting face might give off the wrong impression to others. Try to at least appear interested and engaged, even if you’re not actually feeling it.

8. Scanning the room while speaking with somebody

As a closet queen, you don’t want to be caught looking around the room while you’re talking to someone. It makes you appear distracted, uninterested, and not well mannered. Instead, focus on the person you’re talking to and give them your undivided attention. Not only will it make the conversation more enjoyable for both of you, but you’ll also come across as being more interested and engaged.

9. Sitting with your legs apart

This can come across as rude or unprofessional. If you’re sitting with your legs apart, try to close the gap, so you’re not taking up too much space. Also, to make sure you are not showing too much.

Sitting with your legs wide open is unfeminine. And it will give you off, especially if you are trying to act feminine and want to be a perfect crossdresser.

10. Chewing loudly

This is a common courtesy that’s often overlooked. Chewing loudly can be distracting and off-putting for the person you’re talking to. In most cases, annoying. Instead, try to chew with your mouth closed or take small bites as a delicate girl, so you’re not making too much noise.

Chewing loudly is something I personally can’t stand. I remember one time I was talking to someone, and they were chewing so loudly that I could barely hear what they were saying. It was so distracting and frustrating!

If you’re an MtF crossdresser who chews loudly, try to make the necessary change. It’s considerate to the people around you and good for your overall crossdresser feminization as well.

11. Talking while you eat

Talking with your mouth full can be messy and off-putting. No beautiful crossdresser sister wants to talk with a full mouth. Instead, try to wait until you’ve swallowed your food before you start talking.

If you want to be attractive as an MTF crossdresser, then don’t chew with your mouth open. It’s messy, it’s gross, and it’s just not polite. Chew with your mouth closed, and try to be as quiet as possible. This will help you blend in better and avoid unwanted attention.

When you’re out in public, it’s important to be mindful of the way you’re eating. If you must chew with your mouth open, try to do so quietly. Otherwise, keep your mouth closed and chew quietly to avoid drawing attention to yourself.

12. Eating or drinking too fast

As closet queens, you may not think that the way you eat has anything to do with your image, but believe it or not, it does. Eating too fast, for example, can make you appear restless or impatient. You might even start to show masculine traits, which of course is the worse for MTF crossdressers.

If you’re constantly shoveling food into your mouth or gulping down your drinks, people will get the impression that you’re always in a hurry and that you don’t have time for them.

On the other hand, taking your time to enjoy your food and savor each bite will make you seem more relaxed and approachable.

So, the next time you’re out at a restaurant or gathering, try to take your time and enjoy your meal. You’ll be surprised at how much difference it makes in the way people perceive you.

Eating or drinking too fast can also have some negative consequences on your health. When you eat too quickly, you tend to swallow a lot of air along with your food. This can lead to bloating and discomfort.

As MTF crossdressers, we have to avoid common mistakes that make us appear less feminine. Things like poor posture, slouching, not making eye contact, and fidgeting can make us look masculine, awkward, or just plainly unconfident.

In order to avoid these mistakes, we need to be aware of them and make a conscious effort to correct them. Avoiding the mistakes highlighted above will go a long way in helping you to appear more feminine as a crossdresser. Remember, it’s all about being conscious of your body language and making a concerted effort to improve it. With practice, you’ll get the hang of it in no time!