The Importance of Sex Toys in Long-Term Feminization

No matter in which part of the gender spectrum you feel you belong (or care at all), sexual pleasure is important in its expression.

In the past, we’ve discussed many subjects regarding long-term feminization. This is why I think it is time we talk about this.

Many of our readers have been taking their feminization further in different ways through the years.

Exploring femininity through sexuality is the quintessential experience.

Today, you’ll find many sex toys to take your feminization a step up.

Besides, we’ll see all the proper care they need to enjoy safely!

You don’t have to be either afraid or ashamed to explore this wonderful side of life!

Find out how to start and what are the best toys to do so!

Find out how to pleasure yourself as any girl would!

1. How Important is Sexuality?

In short words, VERY. Each person experiences gender and sexuality through a different lens, and they are all right.

Life is but a journey of discovery and experiences shared with others.

Sexual activity triggers a series of hormonal and neuronal responses that are very healthy when practiced with measure.

When we dress up, we express a part of our inner selves.

We do the same thing similarly and powerfully through sexual pleasure.

For most of us, embracing and discovering femininity is a lifestyle.

That is why I believe that incorporating new and safe practices to do this is the next step.

2. Why it is Important to Explore the Feminine Side

Femininity can be explored and enhanced if you wish to.

But the strong and ever-present desire to do so is natural.

The same urge to dress up in your most delightful outfit and feel cute, sexy, and feminine can be taught.

This is why I believe that the next step is to explore these sensations from this perspective.

Don’t worry, you don’t have to do anything you don’t feel like.

But I think that just like clothing standards mean little to us, neither the way we enjoy sexual pleasure should be defined by our sex assigned at birth.

It may not be very comforting at first, but it is easier and more amazing than you can imagine.

Should pay close attention to the considerations written below.

3. Taking Care of Yourself

To start, if you are a beginner, take it as slow and as little as possible.

If pleasuring yourself through anal stimulation is something you’ve never done, then don’t rush anything, or it would ruin the whole experience.

The most usual place to start is with whatever finger you feel comfortable with. And lubrication.

LOTS of lube. This will not only save you pain and discomfort but also slide it easily through your anus.

Any trustable brand will do, but you are free to try out different brands.

An alternative is using a condom. They already come pre-lubed and will work in the same way.

One more thing: clip your nails! Or you will be feeling the rough edges in your scrotum and hurt you.

Another obvious but often overlooked care is regarding hygiene.

Especially if we want to be classy and sexy ladies, we should always be clean. Everything you introduce into your body should be clean and disinfected.

If anything, the last pandemic taught us how important this is.

Wash your hands before practicing any sexually related activities.

And do this in an equally clean environment.

Likewise, clean any device or part of your body after the gig is over.

Use lots of soap and water. Disinfecting your toys after use with alcohol once they are dry is also mandatory.

Before storing your toys, use film paper and completely cover them.

Please keep them in a dry and secret place, but handy!

One last thing regarding toys: always make sure they are safe for use.

Buy products only from trusted stores and brands.

4. What To Start?

For anyone serious about exploring their sexual pleasure, I believe the basics come down to three.

A buttplug, a dildo, and a chastity device compose this trinity.

With only these, you can start enjoying a whole new set of experiences.

Remember that you don’t have to rush it. Start with very small steps.

You’ll find soon enough how much you will enjoy it and take it from there.

Then again, every step you take should be taken into careful consideration.

You mustn’t hurt yourselves in the process. Lastly, don’t improvise sex toys from things you find in your house.

You can hurt yourself badly.

An uncomfortable moment at the sex shop is nothing in comparison to surgical intervention.

• A buttplug: this device is exactly what it sounds like. Its purpose is to keep you aroused in a feminine manner all the time. Because it is inserted in your anus, it features a base to prevent it from going up where you can’t reach it. This is very important to avoid a very uncomfortable visit to the hospital. Remember to clean it very carefully before, after, and in between uses to avoid nasty infections.

• A chastity device: I have talked in a previous article on the importance of virtue in long-term feminization. Being deprived of sexual stimulation in a masculine way is impossible with one of these. As such, the only release you will find will be through a feminine, submissive manner. Your femininity and mannerisms will be taken to a whole new level. Practice chastity with the utmost careful consideration.

• A dildo: the basic sex toy every girl should have on their nightstand. It serves just as the penis does but on your terms. I mean this size-wise and hard-wise. There are many options available with different shapes and sizes. If you are inexperienced, start with the most basic and smallest you find, but don’t be cheap on quality. Remember to lube up and keep it clean.

There are many faces to the sexual and gender coins. Every single one of them is beautiful in its way.

Exploring them and breaking pre-established senseless norms is healthy as long as you are enjoying the ride.

I hope this post has inspired all of you to take a step further in your feminization and crossdressing experience! Hope to see you all soon!

Written by Tina Munova.