How to Slowly ‘’Feminize’’ Your Closet for Crossdressers

Hello sweeties! How are you doing? Are you trying to slowly build up your wardrobe to become more and more feminine? Are you tired of all the rough masculine clothes? Don’t know how to start buying the beautiful dresses you always wanted to wear? It may be embarrassing for some to enter the women’s department and buy or even try anything. These feelings prevent you from dressing the way you want and deviate from the path of your personal happiness. Worry no more because I have come with some tips on how to start filling your closet with your dream clothes!

As crossdressers it can be tough, depending on how accepting the community you live in is, to buy the clothes and products you really want to buy. That’s why I have come today with some tips on how to slowly fill your wardrobe with feminine clothes without too much exposure and as cheap as possible.

If you can imagine all the frills, dresses, blouses, skirts and lingerie you´ve always dreamt of, laying in your closet waiting for you to wear them, then read on and build your dream wardrobe!

Picturing Your Dream Closet

Before we start binge shopping, you first have to picture the clothes you want filling your closet. I’m sure you must have a pretty clear idea of what you want but the next step is to learn what brands sell what you are looking for. Once you’ve got them listed, subscribe to the newsletters of all these stores to know when they’re having sales that you may seize.

Most brands feature semi-annual sales that are great opportunities to find exactly what you are looking for, for up to half the price! Another great idea is to think about who dresses in outfits you like and ask them where they are from. You can come up with an excuse that you are thinking of what to give to a friend of yours and you believe that you can find something in that store. Which brings me to the next tip.

Buying Presents Not Only for Your Loved Ones

The oldest trick in the book is to say that you are buying a gift for someone else when you enter a women’s store to avoid being embarrassed. Even so, it may still be an awkward situation for some that can´t believe their own lies and it leads to an uncomfortable experience. That’s why it is a good idea to seize the opportunity when you really have to buy a gift. That way you are going to be in a lot more comfortable position.

When you disassociate the gift that you are buying from your persona, it is unlikely that the nerves get the best of you. You can easily say that two friends or relatives are celebrating their birthday the same day to make on the different sizes. This tip lets you enjoy the experience of buying clothes on a store and touch and see from up close what you are getting. You can always tell a friend that knows you crossdress for help, it’s always more fun when you are shopping with someone!

Learning How to Sew

Sewing was considered, historically, a hobby better suited for women. Nowadays we know this hobby/profession isn´t exclusive to one sex, but it still has that feminine imprint, especially if you are making arrangements to your girly clothes of making some yourself. This is maybe the most time-demanding tip in here, but also the cheapest and the most rewarding and it opens up infinite possibilities for you to wear. Starting with underwear that’s the easiest, designing your own clothes allows you to wear whatever you want if you take the time to make them. As obvious as it is, buying the fabric you need is going to be far less embarrassing than entering a lingerie store and asking for something in your size. Of course, if you haven’t come out yet that is.

Nonetheless, even for those that have no problem going to the women´s shops, learning how to cut and sew will let you wear any style of clothes you want and for a really cheap price. Besides, you can always alter whatever you have to give it a more personal touch or to make it fit better on you, sewing some flowers, for instance, to add a feminine feel to anything! Designing your own clothes may be a little complicated at first but you will be sporting your own unmatchable style with all the unique garments you made yourself!

Start with some patterns that are quite available on the internet these days. You can start an online course, binge on videos on YouTube on how to sew your own lingerie, or sign up for some lessons nearby and seize the opportunity to meet new people and make some friends. It’s always good to start losing some of that anxiety to public exposure. I know this last option is not available for everyone reading this and have to settle with the online one. Even though it may be harder learning by yourself, if you have the discipline necessary, I’m sure you’ll be able to get it right in less time than you have imagined! It’s all a matter of mindset and the determination to wear the most beautiful clothes ever.

Spring Cleaning, a Great Opportunity

Whenever springtime comes, a great opportunity arises. While most people are giving away old clothes, you can always seize the chance to add some items to your closet. While you won’t have the amazing diversity that you are going to find in a store, this way you can get some clothes for free. How?

Well, you can tell your friends and relatives that if they are planning to get rid of some things in their wardrobe, you are going to give some of yours to goodwill and that you can take their things to charity. If there’s anything you like and fits (or you can make it fit) you can take it. Try of course not to take everything for you and donate the most of it so you can sleep easily you did the right thing. Of course, if you know how to sew you can alter the clothes if they aren´t your size.

At this time of the year, there are also a lot of garage sales going around, so it´s not a bad idea to stop whenever you see one and you might be able to get amazing clothes for even more amazing prices.

Slowly Transforming Your Wardrobe

I’m sure that if you are reading this, you can’t wait to have your wardrobe filled with beautiful feminine clothes, but be patient, Rome wasn’t built overnight. Building your dream closet is going to take more or less time depending on how much money you have of course, but even the delivery is going to take it´s time. The important thing is to be sure of what your objective is and enjoy the journey as it develops. Take your time to choose carefully what you are going to buy and size, there isn’t a more frustrating situation that after trying whatever you bought, realize that it isn’t your size or it doesn’t fit right how you want it. That’s why if you have the guts and the circumstances allow it, you should always try everything before you buy.

If you are clear in what your goal is, you can start filling your closet with more unisex clothes, or even women´s clothes that aren´t decidedly feminine, like jeans or plain shirts. There are a lot of styles that are unisex and you can start wearing while the transformation develops, but still the different fabrics that you are going to find as you walk down this path, are enough to keep present the idea of transforming your closet into your dreamt one! Some good examples of clothes that, while feminine may go unnoticed, are blouses, slacks, shirts, hoodies and even some women´s suits may be unisex enough for you to wear.

Having a wardrobe filled with beautiful, frilly, and feminine clothes is one of the most amazing feelings there is. Wondering what to wear and matching outfits becomes a lot more fun when your wardrobe is full of different options, and slowly, you can make this dream true! I would recommend that if you don’t have any feminine clothes yet, start with some panties that are easily ordered online, you just have to make sure you buy the right size. If you are not sure of your size or where to buy them, I suggest you read this post on how to choose the correct size of underwear.

Another great item to start filling up your closet is a PJ! Wearing a camisole or any other kind of women’s pajamas, it’s not only discreet and private but also it will make you feel girly from the moment you go to bed until the moment you change to start your day. It is also one of the easiest pieces of clothing to guess the size right.

As you can see, there are a lot of ways to start “feminizing’’ your closet and becoming more and more of the person you always dreamed of being! You only have to make the decision to go down the path of your personal happiness. I’m sure you’ll not only get there, but you are doing it with style! I hope you are all doing well and that this post has helped or inspired you to start/continue building your dream closet!