What Is a Crossdresser’s Itch?

A crossdresser’s itch is somewhat uncomfortable. Uncomfortable because we try our best to conceal it.

That gnawing, nagging feeling of wanting to be ourselves.

It is called a crossdresser’s itch because it’s essentially our need to crossdress, but we are not fulfilling it.

And it is, essentially, our need to crossdress.

Many crossdressers want to be known for what they are and do not want to be kept in secrecy.

Not every crossdressing individual will experience a sense of conflict or, in many cases, guilt.

But, most will second-guess themselves into thinking if what we’re doing is right.

I think it’s because we often perceive ourselves in the way that society has shaped us.

We are used to being put in certain categorical boxes.

Which makes me ask, why should anyone be pigeonholed?

True enough, this doesn’t just apply to crossdressers but to transgender individuals, gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and even heterosexuals who may feel as if they don’t fit into their box.

From the very beginning, there has always been an urge to crossdress.

The motivation behind our crossdressing may be because of the influence of others and the environment we grew up in.

But ultimately, the most common thing is that we find joy and excitement through this.

This is our form of self-expression. Although, this honesty is sometimes met with disdain.

Negativity can be fostered anywhere, especially when we’re out in public. But fret not.

Always have courage and trust in yourself.

Walk with dignity and grace, knowing that you are not hurting or stomping on anyone at the end of the day.

Accepting yourself is the key to living a contented life.

It helps to remember that others still see us for who we are inside.

For example, crossdressing groups and various organizations that fight for self-expression.

They are reminders that we are not alone and it’s time to break out of our shells and be true to who we really are.

1. The crossdresser’s itch

A crossdresser’s itch often makes us need to reveal who we are as individuals.

Various reasons may exist for why, initially, we choose to conceal a part of ourselves from others.

It could be because we are afraid of being judged, ridiculed, or hated by those around us.

And there certainly is an abundance of unscrupulous individuals in this world whose sole desire is to make life difficult for people such as ourselves out of what can only be described as sheer malice and sadism.

While at work and in various situations, we may have put on a mask to make ourselves appear as someone or something else.

These masks could be our shield from our colleagues or people at home.

We don’t want to let others see the real us because of how they would react.

We’re afraid that others would inappropriately judge us without knowing the context of anything.

It is important to be aware that the most irritating of itches can only be scratched by either stopping them or going through with them.

A great way to stop a persistent itch is to stop avoiding what causes it and instead deal with it head-on.

We should embrace who we are as members of the crossdressing community.

By tearing down the barriers that hold us back from coming out, we can free ourselves from society’s expectations.

It is our inner desires to be accepted as who we are inside that fuel our passion for the crossdressing cause.

If we could embrace this drive and refrain from presenting ourselves publicly as someone else, we could accomplish any goal or overcome any obstacle!

2. The urge to crossdress

It’s impossible to hide our true selves when we feel the desire to dress up as feminine as possible every single day.

There is a time that comes when, somehow, no matter how hard we try and resist, the urge just keeps coming back stronger and stronger.

The feeling of strongly desiring to become a feminine persona will probably come after being in denial, and all the suppression can be draining.

No one wants to struggle; all these suppress our mental health.

This ultimately incapacitates us and hinders us from becoming the best version of who we are.

Taking care of our health allows us to lead a stress-free life, leading us to become our best selves so that we are less likely to struggle.

When this happens, the best course of action is simply accepting who we are and trying every day to get out there!

We have to simply let go of what has been inhibiting our happiness and just be ourselves!

3. The motivation behind my crossdressing

For thousands of years, people have been interested in crossdressing.

There is no single reason why people do crossdressing, as it’s different for everyone!

Some crossdress for the fun of it and to have a new experience. Others crossdress for art, like a drag.

One more reason could be that crossdressing allows people to express their feminine or masculine sides.

It can be a lot of fun for those who enjoy it, and it’s also a great way to learn more about yourself.

We may have started with different reasons why we are into crossdressing.

Still, regardless of this fact, the most important thing is that we appreciate ourselves and acknowledge our unique needs to fulfill what we have set out to do within this lifestyle.

The best way to achieve that is by doing what we love and not getting stressed out in the process.

4. How do I deal with the negativity

Many people who don’t understand crossdressers think that we’re weird.

We shouldn’t let that bother us. Some are just not educated on the subject.

The best thing I can do is not to stoop to their level but to educate them and make them realize that it’s not a sin or a sickness.

If they can’t be educated, then ignore them.

Allowing negativity to get to me gives them the power to affect how I live.

It’s quite another story if their negativity creates a lot of tension and generates hostility.

Drawing the line needs to be done in this circumstance.

It’s never okay to receive such backlash just because of what we choose to wear.

We should stand up for our principles and values. Let our actions speak for themselves.

We should be proud of who you are, and the rest will follow!

5. How I handle myself in public

Don’t worry too much about it. Most people don’t notice that we’re crossdressed, even if we do make mistakes or act a little self-conscious.

If you feel really uncomfortable, try to find a bathroom and take a moment to collect yourself, breathe in, breathe out till you’re calm.

First, we have to make sure our clothes are the best.

Wearing something that highlights femininity is a plus.

Next, we have to make sure that we walk with a purpose.

We want to walk with a balance of grace and confidence.

Also, don’t worry about anyone who’s staring at you. You are gorgeous!

You are beautiful! You are powerful!

Try to have fun, and remember you’re building an awesome experience for the next time you dress up!

It can be nerve-wracking to go out in public for the first time.

Additionally, carrying a bag that we can put things in sounds good.

It’s important to have a bag to take essentials out if you need to use the restroom or check the makeup.

I also recommend carrying a small mirror to use as a reference to see if you’re passing.

6. Accepting myself

Crossdressing is a vital part of who we are and should be celebrated.

We should accept that it’s not just a phase; this is something we embrace as an identity.

Trying to suppress a hidden desire can make it even harder for us to understand what we want out of life!

Believing in our freedom to love ourselves is the way to go.

“I am a crossdresser” sounds very definitive, and it is.

But it is also very open because it is the beginning of a journey, not the destination.

By saying that I am a crossdresser, I’m saying that I love to dress up in women’s clothes and express my inner desire.

There is no doubt that I enjoy crossdressing, but it is also something that I am discovering more about every day.

The journey to self-acceptance is long, but it is definitely worth it.

Suppressing something that we love is heartache in the process.

Crossdressing gives us freedom as well as a platform for self-expression.

Remember, when we are passionate about something, it is our every right to enjoy it.

After all, we are all humans and deserve to be happy.