A Crossdresser’s Story: Spending My First Whole Day as a Girl

It is a dream for many cross-dressers to spend as much time as possible en-femme. Still, many of us are afraid of this experience somehow. It is common not to find enough time or privacy to do so or to lack confidence altogether. In some cases, it may be preventing you from fulfilling your cross-dressing dreams.

But I want to show you that it is possible, and there’s nothing to fear. I’ll describe my most recent cross-dressing experience, in which I spent the whole day dressed as a girl. If you want to glimpse what you can achieve, read this article and let me share this story with you!

1. Deciding it was the day

It was a Sunday, and I didn’t have much stuff to do that day. I spent my weekend at my girlfriend’s fraternity near the college, but her colleagues weren’t home. I’m out as trans to them, but their absence made me more confident. Maybe because I knew I would spend a few hours in front of the mirror in one of their rooms. I guess I just didn’t want to bother them, so I waited for them to leave. As they were gone by the time I woke up, the first thing I did that day was to prepare for my transformation.

2. Starting the transformation

I started my transformation as usual, but I was a bit nervous. After all, it was my first time spending a whole day en femme. It wasn’t just a photoshoot; I would be living as a girl for a day. I wonder if other cross-dressers have this kind of thought. I mean, dressing up for fun in small sessions is one thing. But did you consider how you would live your life if you embraced your female identity? I think about it a lot, and this experience gave me a taste of that.

But being nervous didn’t stop me, as it shouldn’t stop you or any of our sisters. It only made me more curious, so I headed straight to shower. I did not shave my arms or legs that day, as I had done that a few days before for another event. But I did shave my face as my facial hair grew fast. After that, I made sure my skin was well-hydrated and smooth and washed my face once again.

I decided to dress up completely before applying makeup because I wanted to see how it affected my look. I began with underwear and shapewear as always. My choice was a black pair of panties, with my usual combo of waist cinchers. I really wanted to wear my breast forms, but it was a really hot day, and I was already very compressed. So I just went with an underwired bra with stuffing. I wasn’t planning on showing any cleavage, so I didn’t bother at the time.

I picked up a black long-sleeved bodysuit matched with black shorts for my outfit. The shorts were a little tight around the waist, but they helped to feminize my figure in the end. As I had already shaved my legs, and also due to the weather, I decided not to wear hosiery. They would help to feminize my legs, but I wouldn’t endure it all day long.

3. The makeup

After I was fully dressed in my feminine attire, it was time to change faces. I look quite different with makeup on, as most cross-dressers do, but I still struggle with it when I’m nervous. As I wasn’t going out, I decided to use a rather simple technique. I didn’t want to look like I was heading to a show or something. All I wanted was to look natural and feminine.

I started by covering my five o’clock shadow in an orange color corrector. I did so before covering everything up with foundation and powder. I also managed to conceal any prominent masculine features by adding some contouring.

Brown eyeshadow, mascara, pink blush, and highlighter did also contribute to a natural feminization. So I used red lipstick to make my lips stand out, to a great effect. The last step was my wig, which I styled in a different way this time, with evenly placed bangs.

4. My experience throughout the day

After I was done, I couldn’t believe my eyes. It wasn’t a depressed college student looking back from the mirror. It was now Elise, my true reflection. This feeling of awe and gender euphoria would stick to me for the rest of the day. But nothing is perfect, unfortunately. It was a hot day, as I’ve mentioned before, and I did sweat quite a bit. As a result, some spots of my makeup started to come off or smudge. I spent a good portion of my day having to retouch my makeup, but it was worth it. Each time I came out of the bathroom with my makeup done again, I felt even better. Besides that, the shapewear started to bother me after a few hours. It didn’t allow me to eat correctly since my stomach was well compressed. But I was seeing how my curves looked, which helped me to cope with that.

In the end, I was able to carry on with my chores and assignments for the day as usual. I spend a good portion of it cleaning parts of the house and reading some texts for college. But I also found time to take a few pictures of myself, like the one below this paragraph. In the evening, I cooked some dinner and ate it with my girlfriend while watching some Netflix series. The last thing I did while still dressed up as Elise, was to post some of the pictures on my social media, describing how I felt. After that, it was time for me to take a shower and return to my male self, so I could sleep comfortably.

5. What will I do differently next time

It was an awesome experience, and I have learned a lot from it. With that new knowledge, I can now look back and point out a few things I would do differently. Starting from the makeup, I plan on using less foundation from now on. I did like how even and feminine my face was, but it didn’t look as natural as I wanted. I also didn’t like how my fake boobs turned out. I mean, they did look good but didn’t move in a realistic manner. My endurance, on the other hand, exceeded expectations, so next time I’m sure I’ll use my Roanyer breastplate.

Spending a day en femme changes a cross-dresser’s perspective. It can be a game-changer in your life, as it lets you experience life as a girl. It’s normal to be nervous and to make mistakes. But you can learn from them and use this knowledge to improve further experiences. So don’t be afraid to give it a go. Free your inner woman for no less than a full day. After that, you’ll be a whole new person. Do you have any other thoughts on that? Leave your comment below,  let us know about them!

Written by Elise

Quiz:

What do you think you need to fulfill your cross-dressing experience?

A. Do ordinary chores en femme


B. Dress up during your days off


C. Get to know your feminine self better

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