Safety When Out in the World as a Crossdresser

There are a few things to keep in mind when venturing out into the world as a crossdresser.

Whether you’re just popping out to the store or going on a romantic date, safety should always be your top priority.

Being safe as a crossdresser involves having a few basic things in place.

Firstly, it’s important to have a support system of close friends or family who you can rely on.

Secondly, if you’re going to be out in public, it’s a good idea to have a plan for what you’ll do if someone reacts negatively to your appearance.

Finally, it’s always a good idea to have a way to communicate with someone if you feel like you’re in danger.

If you keep these things in mind, you’ll be able to enjoy your time out and about without having to worry too much about safety.

Let’s delve deeper into the topic!

1. Learning to stay away from trouble

Learning to stay away from trouble when out in the world as a crossdresser is key to keeping yourself safe.

Here are 22 tips to help you stay out of harm’s way:

1. Don’t go out alone if you can help it. Consider having a friend when reconnoitering your cross-dressing side, just in case something happens.

2. Dress conservatively. Not necessarily like a frumpy old lady, but try to avoid flashy or revealing clothing that will attract unwanted attention.

3. Be aware of your surroundings. Consider people around you and anything else at all times, and trust your gut if something feels off.

4. Avoid drugs and alcohol. These can make you lower your inhibitions and make poor decisions that could put you in danger.

5. Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Move out of the place and find a safe place.

6. Have an escape plan. If a situation makes you uncomfortable, have a plan for how to get out of there quickly and safely.

7. Tell someone where you’re going. Notify people around you about your whereabouts and when you’ll be back, just in case something happens to you.

8. Carry a cell phone. This way, you can call for help if you need it.

9. Know your limits. If you’re not comfortable doing something, don’t do it! No matter what anyone else says, your safety is always more important than anything else.

10. Dress to blend in. Avoid attracting unwanted attention. If possible, try to dress like those around you so you’re not a target.

11. Avoid dark or isolated areas. Stick to well-lit, busy areas where there are other people around.

12. Be assertive. If someone is making you feel uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to speak up and tell them to back off.

13. Have an emergency contact list handy. Have a list of phone numbers of trusted friends or family members close by in case you need them in a hurry.

14. Keep your wits about you. Don’t let yourself get too drunk or high to know what’s going on around you.

15. Be prepared. If you can, take a self-defense class or carry some type of weapon with you for protection.

16. Don’t give in to demands. Don’t hand over your stuff if someone is trying to take it from you forcefully. This could threaten and risk your security.

17. Stay calm and call for help. If you find yourself in a difficult circumstance, the best thing to do is stay calm and call 911 as soon as possible.

18. Don’t take unnecessary risks. Just because you’re feeling good doesn’t mean you should let your guard down. Be smart, and stay safe!

19. Have an exit strategy. If you’re in a circumstance that makes you feel uncomfortable, have a plan for how to get out quickly and safely.

20. Pay attention to your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Walk away and find a safe place.

21. Avoid people who make you feel uneasy. Stay away from the individuals who make you uncomfortable.

22. Be aware of your surroundings at all times. Knowing what’s going on around you is the best way to stay out of danger.

2. How to walk away from a hate crime/group

The following 17 tips can help you how to walk away from a hate crime/group of people who are attacking you.

1. Don’t be out alone.

This is probably the most important tip. Suppose you can go out with a friend or group of friends.

There is safety in numbers, and if you are by yourself, you are an easy target.

2. Be aware of your surroundings.

Be cautious of your surroundings, including what is happening there.

If you see a group of people who look like they might be in trouble, walk the other way.

3. Dress conservatively.

The more feminine/flamboyant you dress, the more likely you are to attract attention – both positive and negative.

If you want to avoid negative attention, dress as conservatively as possible.

4. Don’t carry valuables.

Leave your purse and jewelry at home. The less you have on you, the less of a target you will be.

5. Keep your head up and make eye contact.

This indicates that you’re conscious of your surroundings and not an easy target.

6. Trust your gut.

If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t.

7. Be prepared to fight back.

Carry pepper spray or some other type of weapon with you (check local laws first to make sure it is legal to carry).

If you are attacked, don’t just stand there – fight back!

8. Scream and make a scene.

If you are being attacked, make as much noise as possible.

The more attention you can draw to yourself, the better.

9. Know where the safe places are.

If you are in a city, know where the police station is located.

If you are in a smaller town, know which businesses or homes will let you in if you need help.

10. Have an escape plan.

Have a plan of how to get out quickly and safely in case you find yourself in a risky circumstance.

This could mean having a friend meet you at a certain location or having a taxi on standby.

11. Tell someone what’s going on.

If you are being harassed or followed, tell someone – whether that’s a friend, the police, or a security guard.

The more people who are aware of what’s going on, the better.

12. Carry a whistle.

A whistle helps attract attention and deter an attacker.

13. Be cautious of strangers.

Don’t accept rides from strangers or go off with them alone – even if they seem friendly.

14. Try to blend in.

If you are in a group, try to dress similarly to the others so that you don’t stand out, thus becoming a target.

15. Stay in well-lit areas.

Attackers are less likely to strike in well-lit areas where there are potential witnesses around.

16. Avoid alcohol and drugs.

Substances can make you less aware of your surroundings and more vulnerable to attack.

17. Trust your instincts.

If something feels wrong, it probably is.

3. Self-defense as a crossdresser

When going out in public, it is always important to be aware of your surroundings and be prepared for anything.

Unfortunately, because crossdressers are often targets of hate crimes, we must be extra vigilant.

Here are 13 self-defense tips to keep in mind:

1. Always carry a personal alarm with you. If you feel threatened, activate the alarm to attract attention and scare away your attacker.

2. Keep your head up and stay alert. This will help you spot potential threats and escape danger quickly.

3. Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is. Walk away from such suspicious environments and people.

4. Be prepared to fight back. Take self-defense classes and know how to defend yourself if attacked.

5. Keep a safe distance from strangers. Don’t allow people to be close to you, especially if they make you feel uncomfortable.

6. Avoid walking alone at night, or if it’s necessary, do it in a group.

7. Stay in well-lit areas. Avoid shortcuts and dark alleys where you could be ambushed.

8. Be aware of your surroundings, including activities happening within and about.

9. Never leave your drink unattended. Drink spiking is a common tactic used by assailants to take advantage of their victims.

10. Never accept rides from strangers. This could lead to you being abducted or taken to a remote location.

11. Have your phone ready. If you feel like you’re being followed, call 911 and stay on the line until help arrives.

12. Fight back if attacked. Scream, bite, kick, and do whatever it takes to get away from your attacker.

13. Get help from a friend or family member if you feel unsafe. They can provide support and assistance if you find yourself in a dangerous situation.

Following these safety tips will help keep you safe while out in the world as a crossdresser.

Remember, always trust your instincts, and never be afraid to fight back if necessary.

4. Always have your friends with you

Having your friends around is a great way to stay safe out there.

They can help you keep an eye on your surroundings and make sure you’re not getting into any situations that could be potentially dangerous.

As crossdressers, our safety is paramount when we’re out there in the world, and that’s why We need to be mindful of our safety, as well as the safety of those around us.

Although, sometimes, we can’t control what others do, there are some things we can do to ensure we stay out of trouble.

So, what we can do is to dress modestly and avoid dressing in a way that would draw unwanted attention.

Additionally, we can be careful about the people we interact with and the places we go.

Of course, no one is perfect, and there will always be some risk when venturing out into the world as a crossdresser.

However, by following some simple safety guidelines, we can minimize the risks and enjoy our time out and about without worry.