Renewing Vows in Lace: A Crossdressing Couple’s Unique Honeymoon

The intricate embroidered fabric of a lingerie set makes it our unique honeymoon experience bucket list. The lace dates back to the 1600s when collars and cuffs were replaced by laces to represent the wealth, posh reputation, and romantic allure that come with the material and its natural feel. And for crossdressers who seek a unique honeymoon experience, renewing vows in lace lingerie can be a worthy indulgent experience to show each other love. In this article, we narrate our vow renewal in lace lingerie with our partner as part of our unique honeymoon experience.

The Decision to Renew Vows

As a crossdressing couple, we are continually invested in renewing our vows to each other because we;

• Hit a crossdressing milestone

Renewing our vows indicates that we have put in the work and continuous commitment to make our relationship as crossdressers work. In this vow, we are reminded why we started our crossdressing relationship, the challenges that we have overcome, and the right to celebrate what’s in store for us as crossdressers. We love a good vow, as it is a lovely time to look back and admire our internal and external strengths as crossdressers.

• To overcome crossdressing relationship hurdle

When we hit a patch on what to wear when visiting each other’s parents, sometimes we never know if we can overcome this hurdle. Like most people, families can find it hard to accept our crossdressing way of life. The decision to review our vows as crossdressers rest in our introspection on how we have had to come from crossdressing in private to crossdressing in public. A wedding vow renewal ceremony reminds us why we fit like a jigsaw and no obstruction can get between us.

• A toast to our love for crossdressing

Our decision to love each other as crossdressers remind us that it is our personal decision to stay with each other. Consequently, we are constantly reminded that we renew our vows not because we love wearing fishnets but because we have tremendous gratitude and love towards each other as people. We renew our vows because we value each other and the commitment we have put in place towards each other; in other words, we are proud to do us!

• To celebrate our elopement

When we eloped with one thing in mind: us, we knew this love was beyond crossdressing and mini-games. We eloped from hostile communities and people who were constantly policing our dressing decisions, and this elopement was a James Bond moment for us worth renewing vows to. Now, we renew vows to celebrate our newness to and with the new people who have accepted us entirely and enjoy our crossdressing theatrics.

The significance of doing so in lace

For us, looking timeless and chic is a non-negotiable when renewing our vows. We choose lace to represent our vow renewal because;

• Versatility

Nothing attracts us more to the lace outfits for our vow renewal than its versatility. Lace has different styles and patterns, allowing us to indulge our crossdressing tastes. We love how we can seamlessly blend the different lace patterns and styles to make designer wedding dresses.

For instance, whenever we choose the elaborate Chantilly lace with a delicate feminine touch, we are confident we can add other lace styles, such as venise lace, which is made of floral and leaf designs, to make a bold statement. Lace gives us lots of options to pick from and we love that.

• The all-time romantic lace

There is no more intimate moment for us than renewing our vows, and for crossdressers, the romantic aspect of a lace outfit magnifies this fiery romance within us. The delicate patterns, including an ethereal, dreamy look, especially when we renew our vows at the beach, scream romance. Lace is breathtakingly romantic owing to the cascading trains, which add more romance to our vows. Lace cements our vows because we understand just how much it fans the romantic fire within us.

• Accentuating Lace

The most endearing quality about lace as we renew our vows is how it flatters our bodies and features. Lace is known to flatter any body type, and we love the elongating frame that it imposes on our petite figures, adding to the illusion of height. As crossdressers, laces with vertical patterns, for instance, will allow us to draw our eyes towards each other.

• Breaking Norms

We are cross dressers; of course, we are going to break past societal norms of heteronormativity. Since time immemorial, people wearing laces at weddings include mostly straight men and women.

But we chose lace to show that we as crossdressers also have the right to not only wear lace lingerie, but to also renew vows in it. We are stepping into the renewing vow scene with lace and being as authentic in our version as we possibly can be.

Additionally, we do it out of love.

Preparation for the Ceremony

Choosing the wedding dresses and lingerie

Choosing the right lingerie is essential in ensuring that our wedding dress lingerie fits perfectly and keeps us comfortable during the ceremony.

• Comfort

We consider comfort when choosing a wedding dress and lingerie for our ceremony. We do not want to spend the whole day pulling up our lingerie, fixing our lace wedding dress, or pinching straps or underwires because something does not fit right.

As a result, we often choose quality wedding dresses and lingerie that will give us a perfect fit during the ceremony. We are ready to exchange our vows and comfort in doing so is our priority.

• Our Style

The day is ours, and we do not hesitate to choose the style that suits our internal and external needs. We choose lace wedding dresses with a backless low cut to showcase our backs, just as we choose lingerie with a similar bralette and color.

The wedding dress’s length, color, and pattern are all stylistic factors that depend on our tastes. We know our tastes can be wild and vivid but that does not stop us from expressing our style on this unique day.

• Colour and Material

We are keen to choose lace colors such as white and ivory to give us that timeless experience in our underpants and dresses. By choosing lingerie that suits our wedding dress, we feel like a complete match at the podium as we share our vows. For instance, we decided on the white lingerie set with a bra and underwear covered in lace.

• Accessories

We also choose accessories matching our outfits for lace wedding dresses and materials. We want our bridal dress to shine, and accessories like ivory or nude necklaces always come in handy. The right earring pearls preferably that match our lingerie and wedding dress colours go hand in hand with making our day special.

Everything boils down to the sexy lingerie that strives to remind us where we have come from. Consequently, accessories are crucial in ensuring we have the perfect lingerie outfit.

Emotional Journey involved in this process

• Embracing Vulnerability

When we renew our vows, we feel vulnerable as we open our hearts to express our feelings to our partners. For instance, our partners told us the moment they knew they were in love, and it all boils down to when I first crossdressed in a sexy floral dress in their presence. By opening and sharing our emotions, we feel a deeper level of connection, which reminds us that we are stronger than our hurdles.

• Joy

When renewing our vows during our honeymoon, we are reminded that we are a force to be reckoned with because we chose love over separation despite the myriads of hostility we faced when we began our cross-dressing Journey. We feel joy replacing the emptiness we once felt when we were too shy to dress as we wanted.

During the exchange of our vows, we kept reminding our partners of the days we would wear lingerie in our everyday work clothes just to feel feminine without anyone noticing when deep down all we wanted to do was dress freely as we desired. These ramifications during vow-taking give us much joy, as we know life is as beautiful as it turned out for us.

• Contentment

When we look back at where we have come from, the beautiful lace covering our beautiful bodies, and the ability to have a honeymoon by the beach, we cannot help but feel massive contentment. We feel content with where we are in our lives, in our crossdressing Journey, and in our zeal to continue being in love as crossdressers. Contentment in how far we have come is part of this vow renewal.

The Ceremony

The ceremony was at a beach in Italy. We booked a splendid hotel room next to the beach. We had a few invites, only about 100 guests. Our bridal maids and men were also dressed in similar nude-laced outfits. We danced and sang beautiful songs. The photographers captured every special moment.

The unique honeymoon

The concept of spending our honeymoon in lingerie was an exotic experience proposed by our partner. Lingerie imbues in us feelings of intimacy and romance. When we are in our lingerie, we are reminded to be in an intimate setting where we can own our bodies and features.

For instance, we were able to have a glass of wine at the hotel rooftop to foster our emotional and physical connection, revisiting what parts of our honeymoon were most important to us.

We were shocked to see our long-lost friend Annie* attend the honeymoon. Annie* was previously opposed to our relationship. During the ceremony, we could see her sob in happiness, which she later stated stemmed from finally seeing us happy in a loving relationship. It was beautiful to see that our relationship and vow renewal had touched the hearts of many.

Reflection on the Experience

When we reflect on our honeymoon experience, we are reminded not only of our journey in crossdressing, but the journey of life that starts with knowing oneself. For one, we are excited to know that we can overcome every crossdressing obstacle.

In this process, we acknowledge that what we know now will guide us to the next step of our journey. Two, we are grateful to have been patient to the point where we are renewing our vows to each other. In this space, we apply the lessons and opportunities we have gathered to our everyday lives, especially as we navigate crossdressing in public.

Insights gained from the experience

In the honeymoon period and vow-renewal period, we have garnered various insights that we adore.

Self-expression

While renewing our vows on our honeymoon, we were catapulted into the world of self-expression. For instance, hearing our partner narrate the milestones we have come from living apart to living together and navigating our fights, we feel we have been given the right to self-expression in front of a crowd.

Watching our partner vow to commit to our relationship really affirmed our feelings and thoughts throughout and after the ceremony. Finally, the expression is out, alive, and confident within us.

Patience Pays

We had waited for this honeymoon since we planned it last year. Amidst the wait, we encountered a few hurdles, ranging from pricey venues to poorly designed wedding dresses. However, as partners, we were sure to talk about everything and plan everything until today, when our honeymoon dream came true. Also, we are reminded that our patience in love has finally paid off.

Love wins

We are reminded of the beautiful picture of love that wins constantly when we sum up everything. Throughout our crossdressing journey, we met disapproval of our dress and love story. But today, gathered with 100 people over, with lace lingerie and wedding dress to confirm that we are on the right track, all we can say is love wins, as it should, always.

Conclusion

The Journey to renewing our vows in lingerie is a worthwhile experience for us as crossdressers. We love lingerie for its symbolic meaning of femininity, its elegance, and the way it makes us feel sexy as we exchange our vows. Renewing our vows this way was a way to appreciate how far we have come and to cement our undying love for each other as crossdressers.

For anyone who is looking for a stepping stone to renewing their wedding vows, try the lingerie honeymoon outfit for a chance to embrace the whole love of love in crossdressing. Also, be patient and supportive of each other and the best are yet to come in our favor.