My First Job Interview as an Mtf Crossdresser

I remember it like it was yesterday. By then, I had just finished college and was looking for my first job. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, but I knew that I needed a job to support myself. At this point, I had been crossdressing for a few years but I had never done it in public. I was too scared of what people would think of me. But I decided that if I ever wanted to get a job, I would have to be brave and dress up for my interview.

So, I put on a blue suit and heels, did my makeup perfectly, and went for the interview. When the interviewer saw me, she did a double take. I could tell she was trying to figure out if I was a man or a woman. But she didn’t say anything, and I ended up getting the job.

It was a wonderful feeling to know that I could be myself and still be successful. And it all started with that first brave step of dressing up for my job interview.

1. How I prepared for the job interview

The first step was to research the company and its policies on transgender employees. This was important because I wanted to be sure that I would be comfortable working there.

Next, I took some time to think about how I would answer common interview questions while remaining true to myself. For example, I decided to be open about my transgender status if asked about it directly but not bring it up unless necessary.

Lastly, I practiced my presentation and answers with a friend who could give me honest feedback. This helped me feel more confident going into the interview.

Overall, taking the time to prepare in all of these ways helped me ace the job interview while still remaining true to myself.

Of course, it was scary at first. But by the end, I felt like I had really shown my true colors and was proud of myself for being authentic.

2. What I wore to my job interview

For the interview, I wore a beautiful navy-blue suit with the skirt coming down to just above my knees. I paired the suit with a white blouse and black high-heels. I wanted to look professional and stylish but also wanted to make sure that my femininity shone through.

Then, I did my makeup relatively natural, opting for a light foundation, some mascara, and nude lips. I didn’t want to go overboard, as I didn’t want my appearance to take away from my qualifications or give the impression that I was trying too much. My hair was styled in loose waves around my shoulders.

When it came to jewelry, I kept it simple with just a pair of small diamond stud earrings. Overall, I felt confident and comfortable in what I was wearing and knew that I looked good.

3. How the interview went

I walked into the interview and sat down. The interviewer, a kind lady seemingly in her early sixties, smiled at me warmly. We chatted for a few minutes about the company and the job opening before she got down to business. “So tell me,” she said, “why do you want this job?” It was time to put on my game face. I took a deep breath and started talking. I could feel my heart racing as I spoke, but I kept going.

“Madam, I’ve worked in the customer relations field for a number of years, and I have to say that it’s my passion. Helping to resolve issues, is a part of me. I believe that I could be a valuable asset to your team”. I responded.

The second question I was asked was about my experience working in customer service and how I would deal with an irate customer. I gave a well-thought-out answer, but inside my head, all I could think about was one time that a customer had gotten angry with me at my old job.

The customer had come in right as we were closing, and they were demanding that we help them with their purchase. I politely explained that we were closed and that they would need to come back tomorrow during business hours.

The customer got angry and started yelling at me, calling me all sorts of names. I stayed calm and kept repeating that we were closed and that they would need to come back tomorrow. Eventually, the customer left, but not before giving me a dirty look.

When I was asked about how I would deal with an irate customer in my interview, I related this story and explained that I would remain calm and professional no matter how the customer acted.

I could see the interviewer nodding along as I spoke, and she seemed to be pleased with my answer. Before moving on, she asked me a few more questions about my experience and qualifications. Then she finally got to the point I had been waiting for.

“Now, I understand that you are transgender.” Is that correct? ”

I gulped but nodded. “Yes, Madam. I am. ”

“And you’re comfortable working in a customer-facing role while presenting as a woman?”

“Yes, Madam. I am. ” I responded confidently.

The interview went well. I was able to answer all of the questions confidently and clearly, and I made sure to exude an air of professionalism. My appearance didn’t seem to faze the interviewer at all, which was a relief.

4. What I would do differently next time

Although I did my best, there are a few things I’d do differently next time I go through the interview process as an MTF crossdresser. I’d be more confident, explore my femininity more, and work on my voice more.

Being more confident would help me feel better about myself and my presentation. Exploring my femininity would allow me to tap into a more creative side while working on my voice would help me sound more polished overall. With these three things in mind, I’m sure I could ace any future interviews!

5. Lessons learned

Here are five lessons that I learned from my first interview:

1. It’s important to be confident

The interviewer can tell if you’re not confident in yourself, and it’ll reflect badly on you. So even if you’re feeling nervous, try to act confident and believe in yourself. One way to achieve this is by maintaining good eye contact and speaking clearly.

2. Don’t shy away from showcasing your personality

The interview is your chance to shine and show the interviewer who you really are. So don’t be afraid to be yourself! Let your personality shine through, and the interviewer will see that you’re a great fit for the job.

3. Be prepared to respond to questions about your experience

The interviewer is going to want to know about your previous experience, so prepare yourself about it. This includes both professional and personal experience, so think about any relevant experiences you have that can help you in this role.

4. It’s okay to be nervous

Everyone gets nervous in interviews, so don’t worry if you’re feeling a bit anxious. Just take a deep breath and relax.

The most crucial thing is to believe in yourself. If you don’t think you can do it, then you probably won’t. So have faith in your abilities and go into the interview with confidence. You’ve got this!

6. My thoughts on the whole experience

Looking back at that first interview, I’m so glad that I did it! It was definitely a nerve-wracking experience, but it was also incredibly exciting. I felt like I was finally able to be myself and express my true identity.

It was also great to get feedback from professionals who were knowledgeable about transgender issues. Overall, it was a positive experience that helped me to grow as a person.

My interview experience was nerve-wracking but ultimately successful. I learned a lot about what to and not to do during an interview as an MTF crossdresser. Whether you’re just starting out on your journey or are further along and looking for a new job, I hope my story inspires you.