At the center of these definitions is that toxic masculinity is the set of expected or stereotypical masculine traits or attitudes that harm both men and women.

An example of toxic masculinity is forbidding men to show emotions or even share their feelings.

When men follow these expectations, they are more prone to mental illnesses.

Especially depression and suicidal ideations.

Sissification helps purge this toxicity by letting men feel, be weak — to be utterly human.

Men should be vulnerable and talk about their feelings to avoid suppressing emotions until it comes to a boiling point and they are pushed to do something drastic.

To better understand power dynamics

Participants in BDSM plays need to comprehend control and power dynamics.

To fully satisfy this condition, some dominant partners try to be in their submissive’s shoes and process the new perspective.

In sissy play, doms can go through sissification themselves for the complete experience.

To alleviate gender pressure

If toxic masculinity is all about what society forbids men to do, gender pressure is what society expects men to do.

Men are expected to provide for their whole family, to be in a position of power, and to be competitive, strong, and aggressive.

Some men are just not cut out to fit these conjectures. Like women, men come from different beliefs and backgrounds.

Not everyone enjoys struggling for power or always being aggressive.

Men who do will also end up combusting from the stress they are forced to endure daily.

Men are given the chance to relieve themselves of these societal pressures attached to being male when they become sissy sluts.

They can be as un-macho as they want and even explore their sexual fantasies outside of society’s judgmental standards.

To deepen the couple’s bond

Every unconventional intimate play requires a profound connection between the participants.

Sissification demands atypical methods of attachment involving psychological alterations and sexual practices.

As a sissy, letting yourself go through these methods require trust.

Thus, the process can strengthen the couples’ bond and spice up their sex life.

Misconceptions on Sissy Culture

There are two prevalent misconceptions in sissy culture:

It’s all about sex

Sissy play can encompass all aspects of a dom-sub relationship, not just sex.

It can also be non-sexual and with the goal of harmonizing an individual’s masculinity and femininity.

It can also involve helping an individual embrace his feminine characteristics.

It’s inappropriate or misogynistic

Sissies paint a hyperfeminized version of a woman.

While it’s true that sissies use stereotypes to copy women’s appearance during play,

doing so doesn’t automatically mean a sissy has a hatred of or contempt for women.

The Role of Chastity Cages in Training

Although chastity cages are not in the mainstream sex toys industry, they are common in the BDSM realm.

These toys are as straightforward as any can get.

Chastity cages are like penis prisons — they prevent boners, masturbation, or intercourse.

Sissy slut training involves physical and mental elements, so chastity cages are great tools to modify behavior.

A slut’s assumed nature includes promiscuity and being overly zealous in getting their sexual needs met.

As a dom, you don’t want that zealousness to be gone. You just want to control when your sub’s sluttiness comes out.

Plus, chastity cages allude to “purity,” an important value society forces on young women.

Train your sissy slut by putting his cock in a chastity cage to remind him who’s in control.

When he misbehaves, put his cock back in the cage and deny him release.

This edging can make your sissy slut lose his mind, but he’ll learn to be patient and wait for your orders.

He’ll also have a higher sex drive and the play will be more satisfying.

Selecting the Right Chastity Cage

Choosing your very first chastity cage can be intimidating — especially if you don’t know anything about it.

There are many chastity cages available today and are often seen in BDSM shops.

There are various designs, styles, and materials to consider.

Chastity Cage Anatomy

As a dom, you should know the parts of a chastity cages to understand how to use it on your sissy slut.

Ring: Wraps around the balls and kisses the penis’ base. Getting the correct ring size is critical to avoid the balls hanging out or being squeezed.
Cage: Keeps the sissy’s cock soft. It limits the space a full erection occupies and forces the wearer to bear the stimulation. Be sure to get the right cock cage size by measuring your sissy slut’s flaccid or soft penis.
Gap: Refers to the area between the ring and cage and where the balls naturally fall. The large gap size is for sissies with high balls. Those with low-hanging balls need thinner gap sizes.
Urination Opening: Let sissies (especially uncircumcised ones) relieve themselves. This part is crucial if you plan to wear the cage for a long duration.
Lock: Keeps the cage close. Be sure to keep the key close to you!

There can be modifications on these parts depending on the goal of the sissy play.

Chastity Cage: Materials

Doms should use appropriate materials depending on the sissy’s experience level. I’ll list the pros of each:

Silicone or Rubber: Great for beginners, comfortable, lightweight, affordable, subtle under clothing
Plastic or Polycarbonate: Same pros as previous, comes with interchangeable rings and spacers
Metal or Stainless Steel: Best for long-time wear, easy to clean, sturdy, most popular
Leather: Visually-pleasing, be sure to get “safe” leather-like hypoallergenic vegan leather
Hybrid: Combination of two or more materials

Chastity Cage: Designs

Are there various ways to confine the cock? Yes!

There are common designs you can see in any sex shop.

Unusual designs are for more advanced sissies looking for new experiences.

Common design: Follows the average shape of the penis and balls only
Thin Slice or Flat: Smallest chastity cage type, usually for men with micropenis
With spikes/other accessories: Great for couples, okay for sissy punishment
With belt/harness/ball rings: Locks not just the cock but the wearer’s hole
Cage with anal insertion: For dual stimulation, great for experienced sissies

There are chastity cage designs to accommodate other activities too, such as urethral insertion.

More Tps

Use a tape measurement and grant some allowance so the size is not too tight.
If you want to be subtle about measuring your sissy’s flaccid penis, tie a ribbon or yarn instead and undo the tie after the play. You can then surprise your sissy slut with the right chastity cage.
If you’re unsure of the measurements, there are adjustable chastity devices.
Use lube and don’t let your sissy put the device without help.
Always be vigilant of your partner’s reaction to the device. Let your sissy get familiar with the chastity cage and be more caring at the beginning of the training.

Establishing Training Goals

Though you may be the dominant partner in the play, BDSM has always emphasized mutual agreement.

Discuss your training goals as a pair and center it around your sissy slut.

These goals should also be realistic and achievable within the timeframe you both approve.

Safety, Communication, and Consent

Just like in any play, safety is the top priority in sissy slut training.

Even if it’s just a smidge of doubt regarding the participants’ well-being, the dom should cease the play or at least slow down.

Safety is a nonnegotiable， even if your sub permits you to not mind their safety.

A dependable dom will explain why this is not permitted in responsible adult play.

Communication and consent are the other two pillars of any intimate play.

Ongoing communication between the participants is paramount whether it concerns the play or not.

Especially when a partner is being “cultivated,” the sub should never feel abandoned or lost.

Lastly, you can never ask for consent too many times. Doms should never ask for blanket consent.

When a relationship with a sub lasts for more than just one encounter, you should always ask for consent.

Hard and Soft Limits

Participants’ limits should be established early on in the relationship.

These boundaries are critical to freely exploring sensuality in a risk-free space. Limits should be expressly discussed and explained.

Soft limits are activities participants may try, but not right now. These are the things they’re still on the fence about and will only decide on once they get more experience or information. When both parties agree, a dom can also demand a sissy to pass a soft limit as part of their training.

Hard limits are the absolute These are the things no one should pressure the other to do.

These limits apply to both the dom and the sub.

So, even if the sub asks you to do something you’re not comfortable with, you are free to say no.

Limits are fluid and can change or be modified over time.

Verbal and Nonverbal Safewords

Safewords is perhaps one of the most popular BDSM terms the public knows.

These are absolute words or terms participants use to signal how the play is going without ruining their immersion.

Often, couples use “Traffic Light Colors” as safewords. Green for go (I’m okay), yellow for pause or slow down (Let me rest), and red for stop (I can’t take it).
Other couples choose words that affect their arousal level to instantly stop the play. These words can be the name you can’t imagine being in the same position with (like yo mama) or something oddly specific (like califragilisticexpialidocious).

Don’t forget nonverbal cues, either. It can be tapping, squeezing the dom’s hand, or pinching. Whenever you plan to incorporate sense-limiting devices (gags, blindfolds, others) into your play, remind your sub about the nonverbal gesture.

Private and Public Presentation

Sissy training is not just about being emasculated within the sexual context.

As sissification includes humiliation, being publicly shamed is a given part of sissy training.

Some examples are sisses asked to wear feminine underwear while out in public or the dom instructing the sissy to where a visible chastity cage (usually made of metal).

An experienced sissy’s willingness for the more daring is different from that of a newbie.

So, if you plan to do any sissy training in a public setting, talk about your sub’s comfort level first.

Way of Talking

Mention how you want to talk within the duration of the sissy training.

These include the forms of address or endearments participants can use during the play.

For example, your sissy slut can only call you “master.”

As a dom, ask your sub what tone of voice is most effective for the training.

Does he want a cold, detached teacher or a warm, encouraging one?

Training Techniques and Practices

After setting the ground rules, you’re now ready for the actual training.

Trainers in this space often rely on and start with conditioning techniques.

Remember Pavolov’s dog? To condition your sissy slut, you must create a “desired reaction” to your orders.

The top training techniques I recommend for sissy play are:

Reward-based or Operant Training

Just as its name suggests, reward-based training is where you give your sissy suitable rewards for successfully following your orders and displaying good behaviors.

Rewards can come in the form of cuddles, kisses, or letting them orgasm.

On the other hand, if the sub makes a mistake, doms can punish them by spanking or whipping.

Psychological punishment options include ignoring the sub or depriving him of sexual favors.

Chastity cages are great for this type of training as the sub can be constantly reminded of his mistake while the cage is on.

Doms can also grant the sissy a reward in the form of unlocking the chastity cage.

Preference Training

Preference training is excellent for sissies who have been trained before.

This type of training has an air of possessive dominance, as the dom teaches the sub a new set of rules tailored to what the new dom likes.

Preference training involves rituals, etiquette, or manners the sissy already knows but the dom wants to change (to fully remove a previous dom’s influence).

In sissy slut training, it can be domestic chores like preparing the dom’s coffee with the exact number of sugar cubes or in his favorite cup.

It can also be those with sexual undertones such as bathing the dom while following the specific steps the sissy is required to follow.

Doms can incorporate chastity cages in preference training by ordering the sissy slut to put the cage on himself at the beginning of the play, the method he ordered him to.

For instance, the sissy should do it himself while the dom is looking, in a specific position, and within a time limit.

Play Training

Your sissy play must also include sexy, fun times! Play training should be done in a consistent schedule for it to be considered “training.”

This can be a sissy slut’s reward for holding out the whole week and being a good sub.

Play training includes making your sissy’s dreams come true, and those often include dress-up activities where he can be as slutty as he can.

For example, let your sissy slut roleplay as a roadside hooker with huge breasts and a thick ass.

You can even choose his outfit and make him wear your favorite garter belts, fishnets, or others.

Maintaining Chastity and Discipline

Chastity cages prompt your sissy slut of the promise of sweet release. To make him look forward to meeting you even more, master the art of edging.

Doms can do this even if they’re far from their sissies.

If your sissy is away, give orders via call or text. A text of, “Wear those pink panties that make you look like the absolute whore you are. Quick, show me.” will absolutely make your sissy insane. The best part is he only gets a half-erection.
Do a sequence of edging. Tempt your sissy with dirty talk or call him degrading names. You can also touch him sensually until he’s close but then let go.
Teach discipline by not unlocking the cage if your sissy made a mistake.
Offer quick reminders of “Remember who you belong to,” or buy your sissy slut a collar he should wear in public.
Give your sissy a task for the week, such as refraining to masturbate and help him with a chastity cage.

There are many ways to discipline your sub through devices like chastity cages and belts.

No matter what device you choose to use, always be wary of your sub’s reaction and mindset about the ongoing training.

Check-In Meetings

Never skip regular check-ins and always ask if there is anything in the sissy training the sub wants to change.

It’s also very crucial to practice accountability within this dynamic.

Whenever mistakes happen, it’s unwise to pretend no error was committed.

The best way to solve any mistake or misunderstanding is to immediately talk about it and own the fault.

Sissy Slut Training: Challenges and Setbacks

Since sissy slut training is highly personalized and depends on many factors, any pair can encounter difficulties along the way.

The most common challenge in this area is dealing with insecurities and uncertainties. This can happen to the dom or the sub as both can feel lacking or inexperienced. To solve this, the participants can reach out to more experienced members of the community and ask for their advice.
Doms have the responsibility to understand what training methods work and what don’t. Don’t just try and experiment with every trend or anything you’re curious about. Also, always have a backup plan if a method doesn’t work. Despite the play’s inclinations, treating your sissy (and yourself) with respect is still the most important.
Some sissies may change their minds throughout the training. As a dom, talk with the sub about their training plans. If you sense any hesitancy, the best course of action is to pause training. Only consider continuing it when the sub is fully decided and willing to commit.
There will always be unsettled feelings when it comes to being discovered and prejudiced against. Regarding this, victory loves preparation, so learn how to navigate these waters before involving yourself in sissy slut training.

FAQs about Sissy Sluts and Chastity Cages

What is the difference between a sissy and a sissy slut?

A sissy slut is a more promiscuous version of a sissy. Sissies are submissive cis or gay men who crossdress in feminine clothes.

Sissy sluts are submissive men who emulate the insatiability of a highly sexual woman.

How long should chastity training last?

It will depend on the sissy’s experience level. Sissies just starting with chastity training should not go for more than a few hours.

Then, they can gradually wear the chastity device longer and longer. It can then be overnight.

Then, days and slowly build up to a month.

It’s a marathon where the sissy needs to be familiar with the device — how it works, how to navigate its restrictions, and others.

Can anyone engage in sissy slut training with chastity cages?

Since chastity cages are for anyone with a penis, men (straight and gay) and transwomen who still haven’t undergone any bottom surgery can participate in sissy slut training. Dommes or dominatrixes can be of any gender as long as are experienced in the appropriate training and device or devices to be used.

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