Feeling Lonely? How to Meet Crossdressing Sisters?

Hello, lovelies! I hope you are all doing fine and in good company! But in case you aren’t and you are feeling lonely, then this post is for you. It is hard for many crossdressers to socialize and share interests with someone they meet. And who doesn’t want to have friends to dress up with and go out clubbing?

With all the toxic stereotypes and with a long road to go on yet, most crossdressers see their social lives heavily affected by it. Many crossdressers ask the question: “where can I meet crossdressing sisters?”. In this article, we are going to see the best ways in which you can meet people that love dressing up as much as you do!

The Difficulties Crossdressers Face When Socializing

It’s strange to see a man that openly crossdresses and isn’t received with a negative reaction. Especially growing up, when kids and teens have their social circle more restricted. It’s sad but it’s the truth. This trauma leads to a coerced exhibit of feelings and interests that makes social interaction unappealing for many crossdressers. Many aspects of the relationship between persons rely on the capacity to share feelings and interests with each other. Crossdressing men are afraid of how their coming out could affect their bonds or the obstacle it can represent when meeting someone new. This leads to an unhealthy social life and depression for many. The best way to deal with this problem is to gather courage and find someone you can share your interests with. Let’s see in what ways we can approach this.

Gathering the Courage to Get Out There!

As stated in previous articles, I’m no psychologist, but I think the best way to deal with most kinds of anxiety is by exposing oneself to its source. It’s called shock therapy in the field, and though it yields great results in some, it can be an extreme method for others. Of course, there are more progressive ways to overcome anything. Concerning the matter at hand, meeting people to shake the awful feeling of loneliness off your heart, the first thing to do is know you are not alone. Even though it doesn’t seem like it. If you are reading this, you have proof of it in front of you. The internet is a great place to start finding not only people but also their inspiring stories of personal experiences. Knowing someone else has gone through the same as you will make you start seeing things a bit differently.

What Are the Best Sites to Start Loosening Up

Before going further, I think it is always wise to remind you to be careful with the personal information you share online. With that out of the way, let’s get to our thing. I have written about my favorite websites to meet and date crossdressers in this link. But I always love to state how many resources and helpful guidance you can find in the subreddit world. This forum-like site is modded by a wonderful team that makes sure it’s a safe space for all its dwellers. Getting to know people here and reading about their experiences as crossdressers will help you realize that you are not the only one. Many have gone or are going through the same as you, and their insight will come in handy in rough times. The list below is just some of the subreddits that I think you will find interesting.

A SFW sub in which users post their best pics while en-femme. There are also many helpful guides that will aid you in your crossdressing journey!

If you are going through a rough time and are looking for positive thoughts for this time of your life, this is the place to go.

Crossdressers’ forums

Crossdressers’ forums is another amazing site where you can find all kinds of info, tips, and helpful company and advice. One of the top pages when it comes to everything related to crossdressing. Crossdressers’ forums are moderated by their own community ensuring a safe place where you will feel comfortable. Meet and share your experiences with others here and learn all kinds of things while losing the anxiety that comes with socializing!

Circle of Q

Circle of Q is much more than just a simple forum. Created to be THE online spot to date, socialize, and meet other crossdressers, sissies, and admirers! It’s a discreet and private social network that will help you get in touch with someone like-minded! It’s very easy to sign up and surf through the platform. During the application process you will be asked your location (loosely), how you identify yourself, and who are you looking to meet. This is necessary to save you some time and helps pair you with the perfect match!

Crossdresser Heaven

Crossdresser Heaven’s forums are another of the places I spend the most time browsing through. It is not only a safe space to express yourself, but also an unending source of info and inspiration. Whether you are looking for a tutorial to improve some of your skills or the chance to meet someone to chat, this is a great place to do so. A very active and big community helps keep this site as one of the top crossdressers’ online meeting points. Be sure to check it out!

Janet’s Closets

The last of my favorite forums to visit is of course Janet’s Closets’. With many daily users, you can rest assured that you will find new community content and interaction every day! A warm, welcoming community for everyone interested in crossdressing and crossdressers alike. Here you will be guided by many like-minded sisters and lose a bit of that social anxiety. Don’t forget to visit it!

Meeting Others in Real Life

Connecting with others through the internet is an important step in our journey as crossdressers. For many, it is also the only possible option for a long time. But to me, it served as training wheels to step out to the world dressed up. Allowing yourself to enjoy and be you with others in person and connecting is the best experience you can have. Creating bonds with people that share your crossdressing will improve your life. A healthy social circle is necessary for a happy life. When you feel ready, I think it is very important that you come out dressed up to a place. Anime/Cosplay conventions, pride parades, and friendly LGBTQ+ clubs are all safe places to go while crossdressing. Check our previous post on the most friendly places for crossdressers to meet here.

Doing Things Your Inner Girl Craves

Besides parades and conventions, the best way to meet others to enjoy your crossdressing with is by doing things that you would do en-femme. Let your inner woman relax and enjoy the pleasures of femininity. Going to a salon for a make-over or a simpler mani/pedi can be a great way to meet others that are there for the same thing. You will not only get more comfortable while in public, but also you will learn many useful things about the beauty industry and treatments. A more immersive alternative can be booking a reservation at a spa or a crossdressing/transformation studio. The latter will cater to your needs more specifically and it’s a better option if there is one near you.

These Heels Were Made for Dancing

One of the best experiences of crossdressing is dressing up to the nines and going out clubbing! Dancing all night long and feeling sexy in your best outfits has little comparison. Going to drag or any other LGBTQ+ nightclub will surely cross your path with someone that enjoys cross-dressing as much as you do. You don’t even have to go all dressed-up if you are not comfortable at first and wish to test the waters.

Just lookup for the nearest and best club near you and check out your local scene. The LGBTQ+ community has suffered discrimination throughout the years. Maybe that’s just one of the reasons why there are so many hidden clubs where you will feel at home. Just start hanging around and socializing in the biggest well-known friendly bars/clubs and you will find your way into the underground scene in no time!

Delving Into Feminine Hobbies and Courses

With the same mentality as many of the previous points, signing up for classes or activities that can be considered feminine, is a great way to meet people with the same interests as you. Many great options can fit the description but some will certainly have better odds of meeting other crossdressers. Taking classes such as acting, dancing, makeup, or couture are the best that come to mind. Needless to say, if there is one course or class that you know is either aimed at or full of crossdressing sisters like you and me, you should sign up ASAP! In general, one will come across like-minded people while doing an activity or going to a place that one loves. Lose the fear to start a friendly conversation and be amazed at how easy it is once you get the hang of it!

Despite what you may think, you can see here that the LGBTQ+ community is immense all across the world. Many still live in the shadows, but maybe just because they haven’t found the chance to come out. Believe me when I say that you’ll be happier when you stop living by some outdated stereotypes. I hope that you have found some inspiration and helpful thoughts here. See you all soon!

Written by Tina Munova.