How to Get an Instant Female Vibe as a Crossdresser

As a crossdresser, I pretty much thrive on achieving a feminine look.

Getting an instant female impression boosts my morale and keeps me going.

However, the differences in male and female facial and body features can make this task more complicated.

To get a more natural female impression isn’t easy, but it is certainly doable.

Learning the exact image we want to project, emphasizing more feminine accents and tones, getting our brows done and cheeks contoured, and wearing the perfect wig and bodysuit will definitely help.

I’ll go over each one of those in detail, and I also added more relevant information to help you out as you read through.

Hopefully, after reading my guide, you can apply the tips that work best for your crossdressing.

1.    Know the Image You Want To Project

If you want to emphasize your feminine side, you should be mindful of the image you want to project to others.

Would you love a more sophisticated and elegant image or leave a wilder, more careless impression?

Our feminine image depends mostly on our efforts, and to be a successful crossdresser, it’s important to know the type of woman we wish to project.

A great way to start is to imitate your favorite celebrities.

For me, I’ve always admired Marilyn Monroe for her sophisticated look.

I mostly channel her when I crossdress, and it helps me act more feminine.

Having a style icon will also help you pick out your clothes and create ensembles.

2. Pay Attention To Your Body Language

Before anything else, let’s not forget that as crossdressers, we have our body language that’s different from women.

However, there are ways to leave a feminine impression by paying attention.

Maintaining our composure and moving with grace and elegance certainly creates a more feminine body portrayal.

As crossdressers, you can create a more feminine vibe by avoiding these common mistakes.

● Too much slouching

Having great posture makes you look taller and more feminine.

Avoid rounding your shoulders and back by placing a book on top of your head and walking a straight line.

● Sitting down with legs spread apart

Women sit with their legs shut, crossed, or to the side. Create a more feminine aura by sitting the correct way.

● Fists clenching

Doing this creates a more masculine effect. Keep your hands busy by accessorizing with a handbag or a wallet to hold on to.

● Not eating properly

Eating fast and talking with your mouth full can definitely show that you’re not female.

Remember, most women are very cautious when they eat.

I would also recommend making little to no sound when chewing or covering your mouth when you eat.

3. Wear Body-Shaping Underwear

I must say, there’s something about wearing body-shaping underneath fabulous outfits that creates a sexier and more feminine look.

I highly recommend reshaping your bodies by wearing top-notch corsets and silicone bodysuits.

A pro tip when wearing a corset is to use a mirror.

Most corsets have laces on the backs, making them challenging to wear, so mirrors will help you tie them more efficiently.

For bodysuits, choose one from the different types below that fits your body shape.

● Full-body

This bodysuit assists in tucking unwanted lumps, creating a good wrap in one’s figure.

It’s a splendid way to make our physique appear better.

It’s fashioned with lighter-weight nylon and synthetic fiber, making it way more breathable.

It includes a set of adjustable straps to suit your comfortability. I love wearing full-bodysuits.

● Waist Trainers

Waist trainers, sometimes referred to as waist cinchers, are impressive body shapers that help you achieve a curved shape by instantly thinning down your waist.

It effortlessly flattens your tummy, which can make us feel more extra feminine.

It’s a sweat-absorbent, making you feel more at ease when working out.

● Butt Lifter

A butt lifter, as the name suggests, lifts and shapes bums and hips.

It molds itself to our bodies to give us the shapes we prefer.

It aids in the impression of a female form with a round, full back and curvy hips.

The butt lifter trousers are great alternatives to increase one’s self-esteem, and the aim is to enhance your backside sharply.

4. Wear Top Quality and Realistic Wigs

Top-quality wigs help me obtain a better feminine impression, and trust me; your wig can make or break your whole look.

Fortunately, there’s a variety of good wigs to choose from with different styles and materials.

As for me, I like to have long hair while crossdressing, and I make sure that my mane is soft and bouncy  – much like a real woman’s locks.

Since I’ve been wearing wigs for a long time, here are my tips for crossdressers who love working on their wigs.

• Wear a wig cap to hide your natural hair and create a more realistic effect.

• For the most pleasing effect, stick within two colors of the natural hue of your hair.

• Wigs with highlight accents, as opposed to a plain hue, seem more realistic.

• Shorter wigs are more manageable and require less maintenance.

• A shorter wig that reaches your shoulders is a popular style among new crossdressers.

If you want to learn more, this article will introduce you to the different types of wigs and their materials: The Ultimate Guide for the Perfect Crossdresser Wig.

5. Shape Your Eyebrows

There’s nothing more flattering than a set of perfect eyebrows; that’s why many women go the extra just to make eyebrows look good.

Remember, the perfect brows enhance the whole face and give more definition to it.

Some men already have fuller eyebrows that are easy to transform and reshape.

However, it’s still very convenient for me to have my brows done by professionals.

Trust me, having perfect eyebrows will make it much easier for you to do your make-up.

There are different ways to create a more feminine eyebrow, and you just need to find the best one that suits your lifestyle.

Read through some helpful tips mentioned in this article: 5 crossdressing tips in feminizing your eyebrows.

6. Create Facial Contours and Highlights

The facial structures of men and women are very different.

For crossdressers, a great make-up strategy would be the perfect contouring.

I would suggest creating a finer cheekbone that softens the male jawline.

Based on my experience, it adds more emphasis to the facial features that we wish to define.

Another way to soften our facial features is to maximize the use of highlighters.

Aside from contouring, highlights blend into our skin naturally and give a smoother definition of our facial structures.

What I like most about highlighting is that it gives the face an instant glow once topped off with some shimmering blush.

Different face shapes need different types of highlighting and contouring.

Here’s how to contour your face based on its shape:

• Square Face – Apply dark contouring in the corners of the face, providing detail to those areas and creating a somewhat rounded facial shape.

• Round Shape – Putting a deeper outline of contour to the corners of the forehead just below the cheekbones is a good way to achieve a more angled contour.

• Long Face: Contouring is done both on the jawline and the forehead. Giving off the impression of a reduced size of the face. Ensure the darker contour goes all the way up to the hairline.

7. Style Your Nails

Accessorizing is one of the most enjoyable aspects of being feminine, and our nails can be a wonderful way to show off your style or individuality.

You can style your nails in a variety of ways to achieve the aesthetic you’re aiming for.

Longer nails are easier to style, and I know a lot of crossdressers who use false nails if they have trouble growing their nails.

Let me walk you through the most popular nail trends today and their advantages.

◆ Acrylic/Gel Tips

• Long-lasting

• Fashioned in various ways

• Tips last for 14 days before the filling process.

◆ Gel Nail Polish

• Hard-Layered Nail Polishes

• Gives a more natural look

• Don’t need any power tools when done in a salon.

• DIY Kits are accessible online

◆ Plastic Nails

• Quickly-done nail fix

• Removed easily

• Comes with a safe glue

• Inspired by French Tips

• The most affordable nail solution

8. Wear Feminine Colors

We all know that there are masculine and feminine color palettes.

So, for crossdressers like us, choosing more feminine accents helps build the initial impression we want.

Wearing the right combinations of colors impacts how people perceive us and is a great way of communicating our emotions.

Browsing through this comprehensive guide to know which colors to choose, how to create combinations, and more.

9. Cover-Up Stubbles

Having stubbles is perfectly normal; even some women have this, and most men look great with it.

The thing is, to get that more feminine impression, we need to cover up those tiny hairs by using make-up techniques.

I use foundations and concealers to help hide and temporarily cover up these blemishes.

For application, I use sponges, blenders, or brushes to cover the whole face.

I also make sure only to use the proper amount of product on my face to avoid caking. Here are the steps:

• Step 1: Prep up using a primer to cover beard shadows immediately.

• Step 2: Select the most appropriate shade that will suit your face and that can evenly cover up the stubbles.

• Step 3: Put some color corrector and apply the concealer.

• Step 4: Finish up the rest of the procedures.

• Step 5: Setting the base with powder

Bring Our Your Feminine Impression

Crossdressing requires a lot of patience, practice, and conditioning.

To create an instant feminine vibe, I suggest choosing the type of female you want to project and paying attention to your body language.

Remember, practice makes perfect, and although we were not born women, we can certainly create an instant female vibe.

Did any of these tips help you in your crossdressing journey? Let me know in the comments section below.