How to Find a Femdom Girlfriend: A Guide for Sissy Crossdressers

Hey there, lovely sissies. My name is Marie, and I am a sissy crossdresser, a sissy crossdressers who love getting dominated by her femdom girlfriend.

It makes me feel fabulously feminine and submissive, like a cute and little, vulnerable sissy.

I am sure many of you who are reading this blog share the same feeling as me and desire to explore femdom kink.

I know a lot of you are looking for a strong and a bit mean femdom girlfriend, some confident lady who can dominate you in bed and ignite your submissive sissy side. 

In this blog, we will discuss everything about femdom kink; I will share some very useful tips on how to find a femdom girlfriend as a sissy crossdresser.

We will also talk about the feminine fantasies of sissy crossdressers and the different personalities of femdom girls. So let’s get started.

What is a Femdom Girlfriend?

In a sexually romantic relationship, a femdom girlfriend is the lady partner who takes the dominant role, especially in the bedroom during sexual encounters

This means she is the one taking the lead in the bed, putting sissies on the receiving side.

If you look at it, the word “Femdom” signifies female domination, where the woman takes the lead, and the husband or boyfriend is the submissive one.

When it comes to sissies like you and me, we are submissive sissies dominated by our ladies.

There are a few common personality traits we can find in femdom girlfriends, such as:

1. The first one is confidence. The way these girls carry themselves with confidence, like alpha females. The way they communicate with sissies always makes me sweat. Their strong personality exudes dominance and sexiness.

2. Another personality trait is their controlling nature. Femdom girls are very moody and controlling, whether it’s inside or outside the bedroom. They know how to control their sissies. For instance, my femdom tells me what to wear and how to behave femininely in front of her. When I make mistakes, she also punishes me, and that’s her charm as a femdom girlfriend.

3. Assertiveness is another personality trait of femdom girlfriends, which I find very hot and alluring. Femdom women are not shy about expressing their desires and fantasies. They get what they want from us with their dominating style of communication. If they don’t like something, they dominantly reject our opinions.

4. Last but not least is their romantic nature. Femdom girlfriends are very romantic and love their sissies a lot. At least mine do. These girls are dominant, only to fulfill our sissy desires. At heart, these women are very romantic, loving, and caring about their sissies. They understand us very well, including our desires, emotions, and limits.

7 Ways to Find a Femdom Girlfriend? 

Joining Femdom Dating Websites

There are special websites dedicated to sissy crossdressers that help us find the femdom girlfriend of our dreams.

If you have no idea what I am talking about, let me simplify: these websites or apps are just like Tinder but only for finding femdom girlfriends.

Websites like these are very useful for closeted sissies and beginner crossdressing sissies who are very shy and feel intimidated about meeting people without any prior connection.

Most of these websites and apps have a signup page that filters out scammers and impersonators to keep their clients safe.

Well-known websites:

MeetDominatrix.com: As the name suggests, this website is dedicated to dominatrices where men of any gender and sexual identity can find stern and powerful women who know how to show their strength.

The website is very simple, has the necessary features, and also offers free membership, which is quite nice.

It aims to help submissive sissies connect with femdom girls and focuses on connecting and meeting up in real life rather than interacting online.

BDSMDate.com: This platform claims to have the largest community of fetish lovers, subs, and dommes online, with millions of active members.

What I like most about this website is that they have very useful features like BDSM Chat, video calls, and group chats, which are very useful for closeted sissies.

We can join different groups, chat with femdom girls, and video call to experience things online first before diving in.

Making Local Friends on Kinky Social Media

I love making local friends as a submissive sissy crossdresser online.

For this, I use less popular, kinky social media websites because they cater exclusively to kinky individuals, and since they are not very mainstream, my privacy is not at risk.

Using these fetish social media websites, we can find like-minded people from our local area and also explore more about the femdom events, BDSM-themed parties, etc., in our local area.

We can even use these websites to make friendly connections with femdoms and other sissy crossdressers from your city.

It’s so fun and lovely to meet a sissy or femdom from your city and get to know them and their experiences.

Attending Fetish Parties and Kink Nights

We are sissy crossdressers, not nerds, okay? So going out is very important. Attending fetish parties or simply going out can be so much fun.

These parties are opportunities for us to mingle with femdom girls, slay them with our sissy charm, and shake a leg with them.

You never know, honey; you might meet a strong and dominating girl who can put you back in your furry pink panties.

These parties are a good opportunity to kind of immerse ourselves in the community and make our presence as a sissy crossdresser.

If you do meet someone, keep in mind that most femdom girls at these events are just looking for one-night stands if you are ready for that, game on, baby!

Meet Local Femdoms

If you are the type of sissy who gets intimidated by large groups of people, try meeting femdoms privately, like for lunch or coffee.

These small dates are a very cute way to get to know hot dominas.

We should always tell our domina about our sissy personality and see if there’s a spark between us.

Don’t expect any sort of sexual fun right away.

Sign up for Femdom Class or Workshop

Femdom or the broader fetish community is very large, so as crossdresser sissies, the more we know about it, the higher our chances of meeting a femdom girlfriend become.

So make sure you attend every fetish class, workshop, and seminar because there is a very high possibility that you might meet someone special at these events.

In a way, it’s like catching two birds with one stone.

First, you increase your chances of meeting a femdom girlfriend, and second, you learn about fetish safety, etiquette, and new things to explore.

We can find femdom classes both online and offline.

If you are confident about attending an offline class, you can check with local sex toy shops, dungeons, and sex clubs.

For online options, you can always Google “BDSM classes” or “BDSM workshops” in your city.

Post a Personal Ad on a Kink Dating Site

There are so many social media sites where you can put a personalized ad at a very low price.

So, if you are looking for a one-night femdom girlfriend, you should put google “classified ad femdom + your city” and see what turns up.

I have used femdom subreddits to find femdoms, and it worked for me.

However, always remember to be safe, as you might encounter a lot of scammers and impersonators on such websites.

Avoid dominas who ask for money before meeting.

Always let a friend know where you are and who you are meeting, and share your location in case of an emergency.

Before meeting any of the ladies online, always verify their identity and age to avoid legal problems.

If something feels off, trust your gut and make a quick exit.

Hire a Professional Dominatrix

Hiring a professional dominatrix is the best way to explore the femdom sexual fetish.

In fact, every sissy should do that before looking for a femdom girlfriend.

Hiring an experienced femdom is a pretty safe and comfortable way to learn and explore femdom.

Yes, I know these professional dominas can be very expensive, but honey, they are very helpful, especially if you are a beginner.

Things to Remember

Be a Total Sissy

Yes, honey, be the sissy you feel from within. Don’t pretend to be someone else or hide your real sissy side.

Tell your femdom girlfriend about what you can offer to her being a sissy crossdresser and just surrender to her.

The real fun begins when you are under her control. So be a total submissive sissy.

Don’t Be Shy

Being submissive doesn’t mean being a shy bimbo.

Femdoms don’t like sissies who don’t want to come out of the closet and stay reserved for most of the part.

Always remember femdom girlfriends like submissive sissies who are very passionate and youthful about exploring new sexual dynamics.

Don’t forget there are too many sissies out there, so shed this shy personality and be sexy and passionate.

Stop Watching Fem-Dom Porn

Fem-dom porn is good for escapism, but honey, if you want real-life action, then stop watching it because that’s not reality at all.

Femdom in real life and dominas in real life are very different from what they show in porn.

If you go in with the expectation of what you’ve seen on screen last night, you will be disappointed.

So, don’t compare porn videos with real life because serving a femdom girlfriend is very different.

We’re human, we’re vulnerable, and we’re more than just a kink.

Be Fun and Interesting

Femdom girls don’t like boring sissies, so keep this in mind.

Be a fun and interesting person and try to develop a friendly relationship first, rather than telling them things you want to try in bed.

Keep things slow and let it build up to a point when the femdom takes the lead and takes you to her place.

Conclusion

This was it, sissies. There are a lot of good femdom girlfriends out there looking for sissies, and as sissies, all we have to do is just be out there, show our presence, and make connections in the fetish community.

As a submissive sissy crossdresser, always present your authentic feminine side to find the domina of your dreams.

Always remember to be fun and interesting because a fun sissy is more attractive than any other.

Don’t be shy, and share your emotions and desires with an open heart.

If you follow all these rules, I am sure you will find a very attractive and dominant femdom girlfriend.