How To Become a BDSM Sissy Slave With Ease

05/30/2024

As a sissy, I’ve always had a deep-seated longing to be dominated by my partner.

Why? Because the feeling of being helpless and at the mercy of my partner

makes me trust them even more and it has helped our relationship grow.

After a long day of putting on a ‘manly’ persona, all I want is to go home

and give up control in the bedroom to my dominant wife.

If you’re like me, I’ll teach you how you can become the ultimate BDSM sissy slave.

We’ll discuss what it means to be a BDSM sissy slave, what is expected from you,

and how you can embrace it with your mind, body, and behavior.

Are you excited yet?

Let’s get started.

Contents

1. Who is a BDSM Sissy Slave?

2. Becoming the Ultimate BDSM Sissy Slave

3. Aftercare Is a Need Not Just a Want

4. Sissy Training Techniques You Should Try

5. Final Thoughts

Who is a BDSM Sissy Slave?

Basically, a BDSM sissy slave is a submissive man who embraces his feminine behaviors and wants to be dominated by their partner in the bedroom.

In the BDSM sissy slave and master dynamic, the woman usually takes the dominant role, but the dominant partner can be any gender.

Being a BDSM sissy slave takes practice and training but with time you’ll adopt this lifestyle until it becomes second nature to you.

Becoming the Ultimate BDSM Sissy Slave

Now, let’s move on to the juicy part of today’s blog: how to become the ultimate BDSM sissy slave for your dominant partner.

Look the Part (Physical Attributes)

As a sissy slave, you have to remember that your main role is to arouse and please your partner and completely meet their sexual needs.

That’s why you need to start by looking the part. Here’s what you need to do.

Remove All, and I mean All Body Hair

A large part of being a BDSM sissy slave is defying societal expectations that as a man, you should be hairy.

Remember that the goal is to embrace your feminine side, and that includes having baby-soft skin.

Plus, removing your body hair can increase your sensations during BDSM acts like tickling, sensory deprivation, and wax play.

So unless your dominant partner has ordered you not to shave, remove every single strand of your body hair.

If you’re curious how you can remove hair for femboys, here are some great options

Using a hair removal cream
Waxing
Using an epilator
Going for laser hair removal
Using electrolysis

BDSM Sissy Slave Outfits and Restraints

Now that you have baby-soft skin, it’s time to dress the part by wearing some sexy and revealing sissy slave outfits.

Some of my favorite outfits and submissive restraints are:

French maid dress
Thigh leather bondage
Chastity thong
Handcuffs
Cute cat ears
A toy tail

These clothes and restraints will not just help you feel sexy, but they’ll also turn on your master as they prepare to ravish you and put you in your place.

Act the Part (Psychological Attributes)

After removing your body hair and accessorizing with some sissy slave restraints and outfits, it’s time for you to act the part.

Practice Your Sexy Bedroom Voice

Using a deep bass voice while trying to be a cute submissive sissy slave can quickly turn off your partner.

That’s why you need to learn how to sex moan like a woman.

This means ditching the deep manly grunts and going for a higher-pitched and breathy moan that is super seductive.

Moaning those ‘mmhs and aahs’ while your partner does some BDSM activities like spanking you will let them know that you are enjoying it.

If you’ve never tried it before, feel free to watch some BDSM porn and listen to how the sissies moan.

Then practice it when you’re pleasing yourself so the next time you’re with your partner, you can sex moan like a pro.

Learn How To Please Your Master

As a BDSM sissy slave, your body isn’t yours but it belongs to your master to do what they want with it.

So you have to learn how to please them and cater to their every need.

This includes kneeling or bowing as you talk to them, cleaning the house until it sparkles,

and wearing a chastity lock so you can’t touch yourself without their permission.

In the bedroom, you have to learn how to give them sensual massages and be great at performing oral sex on them.

As you both get into it, let your master strap you to a chair, put a gag in your mouth,

place a vibrator inside your thong, and leave the room for 30 minutes. No matter how intense it becomes, you shouldn’t cum.

If you do, they’ll have no choice but to spank you for being naughty and punish you by making you wear the soiled thong for the entire night.

Feel the Part (Emotional Attributes)

In my experience, I’ve come to learn that following vital BDSM rules helps me enjoy it better and fully submit to my partner.

It’s all about willingly letting go of control and trusting your partner to dominate you.

But before you reach this level of emotional vulnerability, here’s what you need to know:

It’s Okay To Use Safe Words or Say No

Just because you’re a sissy slave doesn’t mean that your opinions and feelings don’t matter.

They do and your partner should respect your wishes.

Picture this, you’re on all fours with cuffs tied to your hands and legs.

Then your partner starts placing a gag on your mouth as they talk about how they want to peg you.

At the back of your mind, you know that since you’ll be gagged, you won’t be able to speak up if things become too intense.

What you can do is ask your partner to place a coin on your hand so that you can drop it if you want them to stop.

If your partner doesn’t restrain your mouth, you can use some cute and popular safe words like:

Red
Unicorn
Pikachu
Tinkerbell
Pickle
Peach

Aftercare Is a Need Not Just a Want

There’s nothing more painful than feeling used after a steamy night with a partner especially if it was your first time being their sissy slave.

To avoid feeling like this, communicate your need for aftercare to your partner.

Aftercare can be physical where they’ll help you clean up and cuddle you as you try to catch your breath.

It can also be emotional where they’ll shower you with verbal affirmations of how you were able to take the BDSM practices like a champ.

Either way, both are very important to help you trust your partner and want to try the sissy play again.

Sissy Training Techniques You Should Try

If you’re struggling to adopt your BDSM sissy slave persona, consider doing sissy training with your partner.

Here’s how you two can approach it.

Set Goals and Expectations

In order to be a good sissy slave, you need to perform your sissy activities with perfection.

Your master needs to train you to submit to them and follow their every command.

To do this, they’ll set expectations for you to meet.

For example, If you exceed the expectations, they can reward you by unlocking your chastity lock.

But if you fail, you’ll have to keep your willy locked away for at least a week.

Role Play Training

Role-playing can help you embrace your submissive and feminine side quickly.

Some great sissy role play scenarios you can try with your partner include:

Maid and Master Play: During this session, your master can assign you tasks like scrubbing the kitchen floor as they peg you.
Teacher and Student Play: Your partner can order you to get on all fours and spank you with a paddle for failing their class

Pet Play: In pet play, your partner will act like the owner and you’ll take on the role of a pet like a dog. They’ll put a dog tail on you and instruct you to bark when you’re hungry and if you’ve been a good boy, they’ll give you a treat. If you’ve been naughty, you might end up sleeping in a cage or on the cold floor.

Kidnapper and Hostage Play: This is an intense BDSM play where your partner will act like your kidnapper and you’ll be their helpless hostage. Some props you can use are ropes, blindfolds, and even mouth gags.