How Pregnancy Fetishism Became a Thing

The phenomenon of pregnancy is, of course, associated with the idea of femininity. Bearing a child is the most feminine aspect of womanhood in many cultures. But how did it become a popular fetish, and why are cross-dressers often trying to experience it? The answers are in biology, gender, and history. If we combine that, we can find an explanation.

It has a lot to do with the biological effects of pregnancy on a woman’s body and natural selection. But the fetishes and cross-dressing techniques evolved much later. They accompanied the changes in society. Here, I’ll discuss the changes in pregnancy fetishism across history. Then, I’ll explain how it became an important aspect of cross-dressing. Keep reading to find out more!

The association between pregnancy and femininity

This is where biology comes into play. I know that gender is a social construct. Even biological sex escapes the binary normative sometimes. But for the sake of simplicity, I’ll adapt my vocabulary. I’ll refer to people that can bear a child as “biological females” and those who can’t act as “biological males”. This is to illustrate the dynamics of reproduction and pregnancy throughout history. With that out of the way, let’s go ahead. We must discuss why we associate pregnancy with feminine gender stereotypes. 

Well, these are some things that date back to ancient history. I’m talking about the roots of Western civilization. Greek and Roman civilizations, for example, were “male-centered” with a patriarchal system. This system reduced biological females to reproductive functions. It would often even force them to have children. This was due to the idea of bloodlines and how important it was to them. Males wanted to preserve their lineage at all costs. As such, they structured these societies to serve this purpose.

These cultures had to divide individuals based on their ability to bear a child. As such, they would often operate according to binary gender standards. The characteristics of each gender would evolve with time. And so it did until they became what we know as “Feminine” and “Masculine.” The defining characteristic of each gender was reproduction. So, pregnancy got associated with femininity and feminine gender roles.

The pregnant belly as an object of sexual desire

When it comes to fetishism, there are many ways to include pregnancy on the list. It’s far from rare, as it happens quite often. But among the many possible ways of experiencing it, two stand out. The first one is the case in which the pregnant belly becomes an object of sexual desire. In that case, one or both partners will find it to be arousing. But from a historical point of view, how did it happen? Why is it such a common thing? A few studies point out that it may have something to do with evolutionary instincts. As such, the origin of this sexual desire may have ties to our very existence as a species!

Evolutionary biology suggests that humans are wired to be attracted to pregnancy. From an evolutionary perspective, reproduction is essential for species survival. As such, fetishes connected to reproduction can signal fertility and health. It’s also a sign of greater reproductive success. Seeing a pregnant belly can remind potential mates of their reproductive capabilities. And that is attractive. Also, witnessing a pregnant belly can evoke feelings of protection and care. It can make someone more likely to invest in a long-term relationship. All that can help preserve the species.

The thrilling risks of pregnancy

The other type of pregnancy fetishism I want to talk about is quite different. This one represents getting aroused with the possibility of getting pregnant. Many people find the risk of pregnancy to be arousing and thrilling. The experience makes a couple’s dynamics in bed more interesting and innovative. Some of them see the uncertainty and the risks as something exciting. It prevents their relationship from becoming something tedious. It improves libido and adds a bit of emotion to their daily lives. But are there any historical events that caused it to happen more often?

We can trace its popularity to the development of society itself. Our problems nowadays are different from the ones of our ancestors. There have been massive changes in our way of life in the past few centuries. These changes forced modern couples to adapt to myriad new challenges. These include financial stress, exhaustion from work, and other pressures of modern life. With all these stressors, it can be difficult to find the time and energy to be intimate with one another. To cope with that, some people seek out more intense, fetish-style sexual practices. They see that as a way to increase arousal and pleasure. That’s where the risk of pregnancy comes into play, as it provides them with intense feelings in bed.

The popularity among cross-dressers

Pregnancy fetishism is popular among cross-dressers. That’s because it allows them to explore and express their femininity. Pregnancy is often seen as a sign of womanhood. It can be a way for biological male cross-dressers to embody their inner female identity. By donning a pregnant belly, we mimic the joys and challenges of pregnancy. We can explore our femininity while also having fun and feeling empowered. The act of pretending to be pregnant might also provide a feeling of freedom and comfort. This is something that may not be as easily achieved in their daily lives. Besides, some men might also enjoy the attention and admiration that comes with it. It can be a rewarding experience.

This result is a combination of all the historical factors we discussed here. Even though we shape our culture, it also shapes us. It influences our desires and behaviors, and sometimes our gender identities. As cross-dressers, we want to express our feminine side. But the things to be feminine are a product of our sociocultural and historical text. The gender binary. The patriarchy. And even the fetishization of pregnancy. They all have that in common.

Summary

There’s no simple explanation for the existence of pregnancy fetishes. But we can list the many historical and cultural conditions that made it possible. Our evolutionary process contributed to the attraction towards pregnancy in general. The development of post-industrial society created a demand for risks and uncertainty. Some of us find it by pretending to be pregnant during sex. And the patriarchy was, in part, responsible for the binary gender norms we have today. When we put that information together, we understand how pregnancy fetishism started. Furthermore, we can see why it became so popular among cross-dressers. Have you ever tried it? If so, how was your experience, and what was your motivation? Please tell us in the comments!