Hosting Crossdresser Virtual Sex Parties: A Comprehensive Guide

Many crossdressers love a good virtual sex party, and hosting one comes with a myriad of checklists and factors to consider. As crossdressers, our privacy matters in our sexual lives, and consequently, we prefer to use digital platforms that give us an ultimate virtual sex party experience. In this article, we explore the different ways to host and perform a virtual sex party as crossdressers, bearing in mind the creative input that is needed to make it a success.

What is a virtual sex party?

A virtual sex party entails online gatherings that come with erotic interactions between members.

Virtual sex parties can occur in Zoom and video-calling platforms where we can engage in masturbation, sex with our partners, flirting, and sexual conversations, including but not limited to participants who are interested in tipping their toes into voyeurism.

One alluring aspect of virtual sex parties is that one gets to douse into group sex without needing to meet any participant.

5 best digital platforms for hosting a sex virtual party

• Remo

We love using Remo to host our sex virtual party for crossdressers because it gives us the traditional form of video conferencing that allows for virtual gatherings with other crossdressers.

Remo gives us a real-time interface that is meant to keep our participants engaged in natural conversations and authentic connections about our sex.

It also comes with high-quality audio and video that allows us to engage in our virtual sex party uninterrupted.

• Airmeet

We can also use Airmeet because it focuses on creating authentic and meaningful engagement among us as crossdressers. It comes with features such as fluid spaces that allow us to move freely and strike up conversations with others.

We also love how we can join the stage area and bring spontaneity to our sex virtual party.

• Swoogo

Swoogo is another digital platform that states our sex virtual party since it comes with the ability to create in-person parties.

We love how we can plant and process our sex party events using its flexibility and robust analytics.

We particularly love Swoogo because of its customizable reports because it comes with the ability to help us monitor post-sex party events.

• Hubilo

As a beacon of innovation, we love Hubilo because we can offer our virtual sex party with more options to network with other attendees.

In this way, we always create memorable sex party experiences that allow us to share with those who miss the party.

A highlighted feature that we love with Hubilo is the 1-Click Login that comes with the ability to allow guests to log in one time and via specialized guest links.

• BigMarker

We love the powerful live video that comes with BigMarker for our virtual sex party, which makes it enjoyable for all of us. The interactive and engaging experiences come with fast connectivity, engagement, and scalability for all users.

Key Features to look for on a digital platform

There are a few features that we look for in a digital platform to ensure that our virtual sex party is successful.

The front end

We always ensure that the front end of our platform allows our virtual sex attendees to interact with the platform with ease. For instance, we have to be able to see other web pages, access other apps, and other buttons on the interface.

Digital infrastructure

We love to begin with building blocks that focus on hardware and software that can support our virtual sex party conference video.  We also ensure that our digital platform has networking, operating systems, servers, and programming interfaces.

User authentication

We choose digital platforms that have user verification and can give us access control to our virtual sex party conference room.

In this case, we care whether our digital platform has a login password system, some of which can be two-factor authentication such as texting or access to the user’s smartphone.

User authentication helps keep our attendees’ activity private and discreet.

APIs

We look for platforms with API systems that can allow third parties to access our virtual sex party room so that our users can have an experience that even transcends just browsing or the provision of applications.

Content storage and management

We opt for digital platforms with text, images, videos, and audio storage features. This helps attendees share funny, sex videos or long audio interactions with little to no worry about storage and management.

Throwing a virtual sex party in simple steps

Even as we organize our virtual sex party, we follow a checklist to make it a success.

Plan a time

We love to pick the perfect time when attendees will be active and online, and that is when we send the calendar invitation.

In this sense, we pay strict attention to time zones to know whether our teammates are on a coast-to-coast or international so that we do not miss out on any attendees and their specific locations.

Get tech tools ready

We pick our best online conferencing tech tools ready to register our attendees and monitor how they engage in the process. In this way, we are able to get questionnaires, follow up questionnaires, and check out those who attend.

Following this, we pick a video platform that will suit our virtual sex needs and can host all of us within the stipulated budget.

Share the link to the video

We always ensure that every attendee has access to our virtual sex conference room call. In this case, if the technology that we choose requires every user to register, we ensure that all attendees have done that before the virtual sex party begins.

Look for a fitting theme

Sometimes, we want to center our sex party around a movie genre, a song, or a storyline to keep our attendees engaged and excited for what is to come.

Send reminders

People get caught up in work, and their daily life, and we understand that our virtual sex prospects may run under the radar, and consequently, communication is key.

We do the due diligence of sending out emails and instant messages to ramp up our virtual sex desires and excitement.

Food and drink selection

We love preparing food, and snacks and delivering them to our attendees and thank them for being part of our virtual sex party including participating.

Sometimes we work to bring our own (BYO) food to promote pro-activity or we let our attendees share their favorite recipes of foods and drinks.

Follow through with the event agenda

We always try not to let our virtual sex party spiral out of control, and thus we pick any other business and put it outside the virtual party schedule. We set our agendas on a slide deck and take note of every sex activity that is allowed to happen in a specific time frame.

Keep Time

We love setting time for our virtual sex party to avoid injecting boredom and monotony, and thus, we always prefer to set the time to an hour to half an hour.

We love making scheduled activities as our virtual sex party ends so that it does not get awkward with people trickling out of the room.

Some popular remote sex party game ideas

Other times, we love engaging in remote sex party game ideas to ramp up our sex appetite and keep everyone engaged.

Role Play

As crossdressers, we love to engage in role play party ideas as it gives us room to be creative about the characters of our choice.

For instance, we love to role play as the aristocrat and the French maid as a game so that we have ultimate fun as a form of a long-distance sex game

Strip Sexting

We love strip sexting as we get hot and steamy with other partners on screen. Strip sexting gives us the power to assert dominance over other participants to strip and send the details of their stripping in our messaging inbox.

We love strip sexting as a party game idea because of the unpredictability that comes with it.

Sexy scrabble

We love sexy scrabble because it focuses on providing us with a way to think of the naughtiest, sexiest, and dirtiest words and share them with other participants online.

It helps us focus on our creativity and wordplay to keep participants in a sexy-anticipatory mood.

Fantasy recall

We love playing a fantasy recall because it keeps us heated and on the jump about our virtual sex conferencing.

Recalling our virtual sex session for crossdressers helps keep us excited about our next virtual sex party because we are able to leave no stone unturned in our passion.

Detailed post crossdresser virtual sex parties action plan

Our post crossdresser virtual sex party’s action plan entails

Send a ‘thank you’ participation emails

We ensure that we send a ‘thank you’ participation email to our virtual sex party attendees because we understand that people take time out of their busy schedules.

It is also a good way to connect with other attendees after the event. Saying ‘thank you’ is a practice that never goes out of style for us crossdressers who choose to share our sex lives with each other. 

Fill a post-virtual sex party survey

We love to send a post virtual sex party survey to our crossdressing attendees so we can get their feedback about the whole experience. In this case, we can find solutions to make our next virtual sex party better and more fulfilling.

A post event page

We are always sure to create a post-event page to share our virtual sex party experiences with each other.

In this recap, attendees can be present sharing a music playlist, creating presentation slides for our next virtual sex party, and a photo booth gallery to recap our events and where we can improve in our next encounter.

Invitation to the next virtual sex party

Lastly, we love to invite and inform our attendees about our next similar virtual sex party.

This is a great opportunity to build a community that is committed to any other online event for crossdressers. It also helps us build momentum and excitement for the next event.

Other crossdresser event you can host online

Crossdresser outfit playdate

We enjoy housing virtual crossdresser outfit playdates as it gives us the opportunity to showcase our outfits edition as any part of our transition.

We love virtual partying for outfit discussion as we share our underdressing and crossdressing journey with other members.

Crossdresser art and history

Being a crossdresser means having the passion to understand our art and history when it comes to crossdressing and gender identity.

Hosting crossdresser art and history helps us to connect with our roots to others as we showcase our artistry, pictures, documentaries and even interactive classrooms.

We get to discuss film screenings that occur on LGBTQ films as we sit, back, relax and enjoy learning from each other. This is a good way for us to also showcase our talent as it relates to LGBTQ art and history.

Crossdresser pride parade

We often love indulging in the virtual pride parade, which occurs in June for those who do not want to march in parades.

In these online events, we focus on the major city pride parades online so we can be part of the event if, for instance, we are held up with work but still want to be part of the team for transgender awareness.

Conclusion

To make the most of our crossdressing experience, we love to indulge in the beauty of a virtual sex party.

Even so, we always ensure that we choose digital platforms that offer us a host of digital benefits that range from user experience to verification of authenticity.

Understanding that having virtual sex parties requires creative inputs, striving to add some remote sex games has done a number in ensuring that all our attendees always have a good and fun time.