Fashion Tips for Mature Crossdressers

As a mature crossdresser, finding the right outfit and style that suits your body shape and age can be challenging.

It doesn’t have to be, though!

By taking into account age-suitable trends and choosing garments that flatter our bodies, we can look amazing at any age!

I’ve been experimenting with fashion as an older crossdresser for years now.

In this blog post, I will share some of my very best tips for getting the look you want when it feels tricky.

Whether you’re looking for something casual or formal, feminine heels or comfy flats, get ready because my fashion advice will help you feel like your most confident self!

Invest in Quality Fabric and Materials

Let’s be honest; we both know it’s very easy to spot cheap things from afar, mainly because they look tacky and boring.

However, you don’t need to break the bank as a crossdresser.

You can easily find fashionable clothes that are pocket friendly and can give you value for your money for years.

So as you shop, choose high-quality garments that are still feminine.

I’m talking about silk, satin, and cotton.

These materials will feel so luxurious against your skin and make you feel and look very feminine.

Remember to also pay attention to how the clothes are made.

If you want a vintage look, you can opt for hand-stitched timeless clothes.

But if you want something modern and chic, go for well-finished seams, sturdy zippers, and even buttons.

These seemingly small details can go a long way to help you invest in timeless clothes that make you feel confident each time you put them on.

Choose Clothing Colors That Suit Your Age

Have you ever heard of the phrase, ‘Dress your age?’

It’s a popular term that emphasizes the need for you to be comfortable in your own skin and to find a style that suits you.

As a mature crossdresser, selecting the right colors that suit my age is something that I’ve had to learn on my journey.

When I was younger, I loved racier, bolder, and more vibrant colors.

But I’ve quickly settled on sophisticated colors that make me look and feel mature.

And although there are no rules in fashion (just recommendations), here’s what I would advise you as a younger crossdresser.

Color schemes to look out for:

Earth Tones: These are great for crossdressers who want to look mature but down to earth.

These colors include deep greens, warm brown, and rich burgundy colors to make you look elegant and sophisticated.

Neutral colors: Colors such as black, white, navy, and gray are timeless classics that crossdressers of any age can effortlessly rock.

To get the most out of these colors, go for a monochrome look that will make you look polished.

Jewel tones: If your goal is to look youthful and playful, go for colors such as emerald green, sapphire blue, and ruby red.

These colors can make you radiate and look and feel forever young.

Accessorize With Jewelry, Hats, Scarves

An outfit without accessories is like cookies without milk.

They have to go together to give off that extra oomph and elevate your look.

Luckily, there are several accessories that you can choose from as a mature crossdresser.

Hats, Scarves

Hats are not only a practical accessory, but they are also very stylish and can protect you from the sun’s rays.

Moreover, you can pick from several types, such as wide-brimmed hats,  fedoras, and even berets.

As you shop for scarves, I would advise you to do this in person so that you can wear them and find a style that matches your face shape.

This will save you the inconvenience of returning a hat that doesn’t flatter you.

Scarves are also great accessories that you can wear in different ways.

You could drape it around your neck, tie it as a headband, or use it as a belt.

Besides, they can add a pop of color to your outfit.

Just like hats, experiment with different styles and patterns to find the ones that fit your taste.

Jewelry

Then, don’t forget your jewelry.

Pieces such as necklaces, anklets, and earrings can add a feminine touch to any outfit.

If you’re not ready to pierce your ears but you’d love to rock some statement earrings, you can buy some clip-on earrings.

Lastly, you should accessorize based on who you want to show up as.

If you’re going for a mysterious but chic look, invest in dramatic hats, statement earrings, and dainty necklaces.

On the other hand, if you want to go for a girl-next-door look, opt for bracelets, comfy but cute scarves, and smaller earrings.

The best thing about jewelry is that you can never have too many, and when paired well, they can make you look and feel very confident.

Pay Attention to Your Body Proportions

Not all of us are blessed with an hourglass shape (myself included), but this doesn’t mean we should love our bodies any less.

We have to work with what we have and make the most of it so we feel confident in our skin.

Understanding your body proportions will help you pick out outfits that flatter you. And when you look good, you feel good.

Start by examining yourself in a mirror. Which parts of your body stand out?

Do you have broad shoulders? A tiny waist or even a gap thigh?

Once you can identify this, you can highlight what you want to emphasize to accentuate and make you look feminine.

Here are a few tips to help you along the way:

Define Your Waist: If you have broad shoulders, you can wear corsets that make your waist appear smaller to have an hourglass silhouette.

You can also wear long wigs to cover your shoulders.

Lengthen Your Legs: One of the most feminine features of a woman is her long legs.

And as a crossdresser, you can emulate this by wearing high-waisted bottoms like skirts or pants to elongate your legs.

Consider pairing them with nude-colored heels to create the illusion of legs that go on for days.

Embrace Tailoring: Well-fitting clothes that flatter your body shape can make a big difference when it comes to having the perfect outfit as a crossdresser.

Look for a skilled tailor who can make your skirts fit snugly on your hips while cinching your waist.

Think Outside the Box – Experiment

Fashion is all about expressing yourself. And as a crossdresser, it’s completely normal for you to be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.

Especially if it’s your first-time crossdressing and you’d like to go out in public.

That’s why you can start by practicing at home. No one has to see your outfit, so feel free to experiment with anything you’d like.

Once you feel more confident to step out of the house in your outfits, here are more tips that you can try:

Lay Your Clothes: One of the reasons I love winter is because it’s the perfect excuse to layer beautiful clothes and remain warm.

You don’t have to wait for the season since you can still layer light clothes and make them work beautifully together.

Try wearing a cardigan over a blouse or a blazer over a dress to add dimension to your look.

Add in Prints and Patterns: Don’t shy away from prints and patterns.

Stripes, florals, and animal prints can add personality and vibrancy to your outfits.

Mix and Match: There’s no rule that says that you need to limit yourself to gender norms.

Feel free to mix and match your masculine and feminine sides, especially if you’re new to crossdressing.

You can do this by pairing a tailored blazer that fits snugly on your shoulders with a feminine blouse or a knee-length skirt that shows off your legs.

Have Fun With Your Style

My last tip for you is to simply have fun.

Crossdressing should bring you joy and allow you to express yourself freely.

So embrace your style and feel free to change it whenever you want.

Just because you like something now doesn’t mean you will in the next six months.

So if your style keeps changing, just know that this is okay and you’re exploring different sides of yourself.

Here are my fashion tips to help you have fun with your style and keep exploring different looks:

Create a Capsule Wardrobe: Building a versatile wardrobe with a few essential pieces can help you put together a show-stopping outfit in less than 20 minutes, and you’ll always look put together.

Follow Fashion Influencers: Look for crossdressing fashion influencers on platforms like TikTok and Instagram who have a similar style and body shape to you. Their outfit ideas can inspire you to try new things that you might love.

Seek Supportive Communities: Connect with other mature crossdressers through social media and other online forums.

You can share style inspirations and even be shopping spree besties.

Final Thoughts

As I conclude this blog, I want to leave you with a parting message.

As a crossdresser, never let your age limit your ability to express yourself through fashion.

By investing in high-quality fabric, accessorizing, paying attention to your body proportions, thinking outside the box, and having fun with your style, you can create a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and empowered.

And just like fine wine, keep aging gracefully and looking fabulous at each stage of your life.