Exploring Crossdressing as a Sex Fetish

The intense sexual arousal that crossdressers receive from crossdressing is worthwhile in and out of the bedroom.

Crossdressing as a sex fetish helps crossdressers play and experiment with different attires, costumes, and makeup similar to exploring the world of sex.

Crossdressing as a sex fetish will implore the confident side of dressers to come out as a way to embrace personal freedom.

It will unravel the sexual side of each partner, making the two tango into a beautiful dance of human connection.

What is a sex fetish?

A sex fetish is referred to as the sexual excitement that one feels when one feels attracted,

get an erection, or orgasm towards someone or something.

A sex fetish will involve a sexual attraction to the touch, smell, sight, or taste of the person or object.

An example of a sex fetish involving cloth wear or makeup thus involves one person sexually enjoying seeing,

smelling, and touching themselves or others dressed in specific clothes, attires, or accessories.

Overview of crossdressing as a sex fetish

Also called transvestic fetishism, wearing clothes conventionally associated with the opposite gender makes crossdressing such a fun activity.

A man wearing a floral dress and a girl wearing a necktie and both enjoying erotic arousal kissing or sexual penetration.

By nature, crossdressing is sexual and can be enjoyed depending on how one chooses to engage in sex using clothes worn by the opposite sex.

Crossdressing as a sex fetish is distinguished by three main components;

• Erotic component

Here we crossdress to elicit sexual excitement within us and our partners by wearing clothes of the opposite gender.

We can wear a wide range of clothes including lingerie to full body outfits.

• Imaginative role play

We can fantasize and play the roles of our favorite sexual persons. In role play,

we as crossdressers are free to play any gender and any character of our liking.

• Discreteness and Privacy

We can always be keen to keep our crossdressing fetish a secret that only the participants have the key.

Keeping our crossdressing as a fetish private adds to the spice and eroticism we experience as partners.

Reasons why crossdressing may be arousing

Here are the reasons why crossdressing causes sexual arousal;

Activating Confidence

If crossdressing in a sexy Harley Quinn costume makes us feel sexually empowered as heroines,

then we know that deep down, we are confident and that we only need to experiment with different clothes to get the most out of our identity.

When we are crossdressing as a fetish it reminds us of the power that lurks deep within us that we can harness in our everyday lives.

It is no wonder that women who crossdress as CEOs wearing suits swear by the confidence that they receive from wearing such masculine attire.

Having confidence in itself is arousing for us and our partners.

Authentic self

Crossdressing can be arousing, especially when we imagine and engage in

the freedom that wearing the opposite gender brings us.

For us, the only time we feel free from the bonds of societal gender roles is when we crossdress as women.

Thus, the authentic self that comes out every time we wear fishnets and

activate our feminine charm is self-arousing to us and our partners

It evokes sexual gratification

If we know we climax more when our partner wears a French maid outfit, we can always be ready

to compile short white skirts, an apron, and a white blouse for crossdressing.

We may love watching our partners on their knees, cleaning and crossdressing as a

French maid as we feel sexually charged from the view alone.

The sexual satisfaction that comes from seeing our partners crossdress into something sexy is worth engaging.

Empowerment

The Freedom that we activate in ourselves and our environment as we crossdress can be arousingly empowering to us and others.

As a result, when we know we are able to defy social expectations and dress in opposite-gender

clothes and stand boldly in them, we are reminded of our free will not only as crossdressers

but also as unique individuals exploring beyond the confines of societal labels of what it means to be a man or woman.

Crossdressing as a fetish vs gender dysphoria

Crossdressing as a fetish is often confused with gender dysphoria within the LGBTQ community and beyond.

The differences lie in the;

• Definition

The feeling that one’s biological gender misaligns with one’s internal gender identity causes gender dysphoria.

On the other hand, crossdressing as a fetish involves the pleasurable action of dressing in clothes of the opposite gender.

• Motivation

For one to cross dress as a fetish, they must be motivated to explore and play with opposite gender clothing identity for sexual arousal while gender dysphoria is motivated by the desire to align one’s physical appearance with their gender identity.

• Duration and Context

To crossdress as a fetish is situational and does not extend to other parts of the day-to-day of a crossdresser.

However, gender dysphoria can be long-term affecting how individuals perceive themselves.

• Gender identity

Individuals who crossdress as a sex fetish do not bother about their gender assigned at birth,

rather they crossdress to enjoy living as the opposite gender. Such individual’s gender identity matches their sex.

Gender dysphoria on the other hand makes individuals endure a mismatch between their gender identity and their recommended sex.

• Impact on life

Cross dressing does not impact one’s quality of life as gender dysphoria would.

Crossdressing alleviates gender dysphoria for the most part as the latter causes emotional and mental distress in the individual.

Fulfilling Crossdressing Desires

To fulfill our crossdressing desires we do whatever it is that feels good and redirects us to our true identity.

Therefore we;

Crossdress in our favorite characters

We love to crossdress our favorite characters, especially for beginners.

Dressing in our favorite characters makes it easy to immerse ourselves in our deepest fetishistic desires.

Explore various clothes and attire

To adequately explore the fun of crossdressing, it is important that we experiment with various clothes and attires.

Our partners can choose to dress as hot and sexy officers to add spice to our interaction and engagement with each other as crossdressers.

We can also include vast color and styling options to poke our crossdressing desires as partners.

Integrate make up and costumes

To crossdress head to toe submerged into the world of crossdressing, we might love to

sprinkle in bits of make up to accompany our costumes depending on our preferences.

We may love to play with bright or dark eyeshadow colors to complement us if we crossdress as a sexy secretary.

Makeup and costumes add more vibrancy to our crossdressing while also keeping it light for more fun.

Exploring Our crossdressing fetishes

At the heart of every fetish is the desire to be seen for who we are. We love communicating

with our partners about our needs, desires, and turn-ons when it comes to what to wear

and what not to wear if we truly want to submerge ourselves in our crossdressing desires.

Exploring each other’s world of crossdressing

Common misconceptions about crossdressing as a fetish

Here are a few misconceptions about crossdressing as a fetish accompanied by the true realities to counter these misconceptions.

Trans who crossdress as a fetish are gay

That everyone, including Trans who crossdresses as a fetish, is a common misconception.

We often crossdress because we enjoy wearing female costumes, but this does not render

us gay because we understand the difference between what we choose to wear and what we are sexually attracted to can be separate.

We know that our internal fit between our gender identity and dressing is not the equivalent of our sexuality.

Anyone who crossdresses wants to be like a woman

Another common misconception about crossdressers who have a fetish is that they have the desire to be like women.

However, crossdressing as a fetish cuts across both men and women as it involves men

wearing women’s clothing and women wearing men’s clothing.

It is worth noting crossdressing as a fetish cut across all genders, including non-binary.

If you crossdress as a fetish, you have to engage in sex

It is wrong to believe that every time we crossdress as a fetish, we are sure to engage in some raunchy sex interaction.

Further, it is downright disrespectful to include a sexual component to our crossdressing

fetishized moment because some of us crossdress to enjoy our bodies in vast opposite outfits and the feeling it brings out of us.

Ensuring physical and emotional safety

These are the safety measures we must consider before exploring crossdressing fetish;

Consent is Key

Always ensure consent is the non-negotiable element for anything sexual we may have with our partners.

As a result, whenever we crossdress as French maids for instance, we are optimistic to ask questions and

affirm each other’s needs or what we are expected to do, including or not limited to whether sex will be involved or not.

Communication in Emotional needs

We can ensure emotional connection as we explore our indulgence in crossdressing by

communicating our beliefs, feelings, actions, and thoughts. Communicating to each other about our desires,

turn-ons, and turn-offs as we crossdress in bondage or submission for instance always leaves everyone

to respect and understand each other’s emotional needs.

Have a safe word

Having a safe word as we crossdress as a sex fetish helps remind us of our boundaries, limitations, expectations, and needs in the sex fetish.

A safe word ensures that we trust our partners to heed our concerns when we address them as we engage in sexual activity in our chosen apparel.

Conclusion

As long as crossdressing as a fetish pleases us and no one is being forced to be part of it,

we are always ready to shake up our wardrobe and spice things up with our partners.

Exploring crossdressing as a fetish links us to our inherent desires of being aroused by who we are,

our partners, how we show up, and how we engage in sex without partners.

We are careful to engage in effective communication, seek consent,

and use safe clothing and products to make our crossdressing experience sexually worthwhile.

Enjoy the freedom that comes with fetishizing crossdressing as we unlock our true self and presence in a world that greatly needs it.