Creating Your Own Chastity Routine

Chastity is a well-known fantasy between those who enjoy crossdressing and feminization. The sensation of not being in control of your genitals and giving it all to your key holder. But not everyone who enjoys this has the fortune of having someone worthy of their trust. That is why some of us have to come up with out-of-the-box solutions.

In the following article, I’m going to give some tips on how to create and start your chastity routine! If you are looking to explore submissiveness and don’t know where to start, we’ve got you covered here! As you will see, the routine is and always should be personal to each own. But enough of chit-chat and let’s get to it!

Wearing a Chastity Device

It may be obvious for some of you, but in case it doesn’t, let’s go over it quickly. A chastity device is a common practice in BDSM relationships. It consists of an object designed to encase the penis and prevent any erections, no matter how aroused you are. Being chaste is one thing, but the added thrill that wearing a chastity device brings to the mix makes things pretty interesting. As I wrote in a previous post, wearing a chastity device can be a fun thing to try if you are exploring your feminine desires in more ways than one. As you can imagine, this experience can be exhilarating when done right. Having an experienced dom to take care of your chastity regime is something we all yearn for. Unfortunately, this is hardly the case for most of us. So let’s go over the basics you need to know!

Getting the Correct Chastity Device

As I mentioned before, I recently wrote a post on this very same blog on how to get started looking for a chastity device. If you haven’t, I recommend that you do. There I talk about different types of devices and what choices are better suited for beginners, make sure to check it out! To prevent injuries and make the experience all the more enjoyable, getting the right chastity device is essential.

Check for different materials they are made of and always, as a must, be sure to take a look at the sizing chart. Not having a proper fit for the device will make things uncomfortable or futile at the very least, while injuring at the worst. Generally, every manufacturer has not only a size chart next to the item but also a guide on how to measure. If not, be very careful with that site!

Getting Used to It

Getting used to wearing a chastity device can be very comfortable when done right. Starting slowly with an hour or two each day, making sure you don’t have any social compromises that can create uncomfortable situations. If you are the sole holder of both of the keys that came with the device, one should always be more or less at hand, in case of an emergency. A great idea is to fill the ice tray with water while the key is inside.

Leave it in a corner of your fridge and that now is your emergency key for the time being. At first, as you will be locking yourself for no more than one or two hours a day, you can freeze both and let the melting of the ice determine your time in chastity. Once you reach the point you find it comfortable sleeping with the device on, you can get more adventurous and leave one key on your fridge while mailing the other to your address! Just remember to leave the sender’s address blank!

Safety Measures

Having mentioned mailing your key to your house: it is important to state that should any case your key gets lost in the mail, you should either get a new chastity device, or a copy done immediately of your emergency one! Do not look for trouble by wearing a device that has only one key you can count on. Even if you are a seasoned chastity wearer, it is not wise. The other thing you should look for is any signs of inflammation, excessive moistness, or anything around your genitalia after each use. This can happen, especially when you add hours or days to your regime. In case of any symptoms, do not hesitate a minute to consult a doctor. Last but not least, you should make sure that you clean the area and your device every day, before and after use! And don’t forget to dry!

Wearing a chastity device is an express lane to femininity! If you have always loved the feeling of girly things and want to take the crossdressing experience up a notch, I wouldn’t miss it! The great thing about doing this for yourself is that you will have a clear understanding of your body and limits when presented with the opportunity of having a key holder! Make sure to always do so in a safe manner and take care!