Choosing Your First Sex Toys!

How are you all today? Ready for a special and spicy article? Because today we are going to be talking about some tips that you need to know if you are looking to buy your very first sex toys! I think that sex toys are great in so many ways and open the doors to a whole new world of pleasure!

If you have been wondering what to look for in your first toys, then this post is for you! We are going to talk about safety measures and some of the toys that could interest you the most! But in the end, it is a very personal choice that you will be able to do after reading this!

Look for a Body Safe Label

Depending on where you live, there should be a regulatory entity that controls that the sex toys that are on the market are safe to use. There are many materials and manufacturers that don’t abide by any norm that protects the safety of use. They may look the same as a legit one but will probably be cheaper than the real deal. This is a very clear first indicator of something fishy going on. If you have found a toy you like to try, I suggest that you don’t let your actions be dictated by the heat of the moment. Before spending any money on something that could hurt you, check online blogs and various sources to check for the manufacturer’s reviews. Stay away from any fishy product that you come across, no matter how cheap or nice it looks. Better safe than sorry!

Making Your Own Research

What toys you need is a very personal choice. This is why making your research on sex toys is a must. Starting with the most basic item we all need, a dildo may sound easy. But there are so many options in the market that it is hard to point at one specifically. Once you go down the rabbit hole, you find yourself immersed in a world of lust, but wait! You can’t and shouldn’t buy it all at once! As a general rule, it is best to start slowly with toys. If you are looking for your first dildo, leave the biggest one alone and go for some of the smallest. Just like with heels, starting from the bottom is the safest course of action! One of my favorite things to do when looking for a new toy is check all the options available, even if I can’t find it in my country or it isn’t produced anymore!

My Personal Recommendation

Because most, if not all here, are looking to experience femininity at its fullest, I’m going to give you what I think you should have an eye out for. I already mentioned a dildo, it is a must on every lady’s nightstand. Again, start with something small, and do not let your horny mind lead you to a visit to a doctor! Having a dildo in your drawer is no good if it doesn’t get used, am I right? So along the lines of rediscovering yourself and exploring your body like never before, what do you say if we encourage our femininity a little further? A chastity device is a great toy to have in your arsenal that will encourage you to make use of your dildo more often! And for all the kinky gals like me, I cannot express enough how useful a butt plug is! Be on the lookout for this trifecta!

Starting With Butt Plugs

If you want to start exploring your sexuality as any other teenage girl would, butt plugs are a great starting point. Of course, a dildo is something you will need on your nightstand sooner or later. But plugs can ease the path while providing you with constant arousal. Great if you like to be edging all day long! These little devices will also stretch the muscles of your anus, so you won’t have a hard time enjoying your new dildo. Like any other sex toy, the variety is wide and can be overwhelming for newcomers. That said, the following are the ones that I think are best suited for beginners.

Helix Syn Trident: This G spot stimulator is one of the best you can find on the market. It is made out of silicone and stimulates three different erogenous zones inside you to transport you to a world of pleasure. It is quite small compared to other options, which makes it perfect for those dipping their toes in these waters for the first time. You can enjoy hands-free with as much as contractions to stimulate your G spot! Check the other options available on the website if you want to compare, but this is a must-have for me!

Lovense Edge 2: This plug and prostate manager is great for the kinkier minds reading this. It is made by one of the leading companies in the remote-controlled sex toys world. You can control it via Bluetooth with your cellphone to play solo or leave the command to others to tease you as they please! You can also control the Lovense via Wi-Fi which makes it amazing for long-distance foreplay too!

Ace Small by Tantus: This little plug is not only the cheapest in this selection but also one of the most suitable for beginners. Its small size makes it perfect for everyone starting in this new universe of prostate stimulation. You can also check their page and see all the options available, not only for beginners but for experts too! Their designs are so well made anatomically that will impress with how comfortable they are to wear. If you are looking for a fun, easy, and cheap introduction to this world!

Chastity Devices: More Femininity Than You Can Imagine

If you have been reading this blog frequently, you may already know something about chastity devices. If you haven’t read our previous post about it, I recommend you check out this other article first. Chastity devices are designed to prevent erections and help you control your masculine urges. That said, in case you are feeling horny, you will have to either control yourself or you will have to masturbate as any other woman would. As a general rule, unless it is way overpriced, in sex toys, you get what you pay for. Besides being safe for use, a good design process also comes with a price tag. Especially when it comes to chastity devices that have to be comfortable to wear for long periods. Here are some of my recommendations in addition to the ones in the previously mentioned article:

Cherry Keeper: Cherry Keeper designs chastity cages that you can buy easily on their website. There are a lot of designs to choose from and you can see the effort put in to make everything perfect to avoid any complications. Even though I personally prefer metal cages for wearing long term, these are great and cheap enough for you to try out the experience. Make sure to read the fitting guide on their website so you don’t get the wrong size!

Chastity Device: Now on the other end, we have these amazing cages that are great if you have decided you love being in chastity. The price for these is also on the other end of the spectrum ranging from $50 to $200. But don’t let the price tag scare you. These cages are perfectly designed and are very comfortable for long-time users that are compromised with the cause. Also, they have many different materials to choose from, including plastic, metal, and wood!

Amazon: If you are looking to buy a chastity device from Amazon, it’s perfectly fine but minds this: read all the reviews! On the platform, you will find anything from terrible to terrific. So if it is easier for you to bundle your order on Amazon and add a chastity device to it, be sure to check for thoughtful reviews on the item’s listing.

Best Dildos for Beginners

And of course, we can’t make a list of kinky sex toys without referring to some dildos and why they are so great at sparking your femininity. Dildos are phallus-like toys that you can use to stimulate your prostate and reach the most wonderful orgasms you can imagine. And perhaps even more! One thing you always must take into account when buying a new dildo is to be sure to check it has a base so it doesn’t get stuck inside of you. Avoid any unwanted complications by selecting and buying safe toys to have all the pleasure you want without any dire consequences! If it is the first dildo you are buying, I suggest you don’t let anxiety get the best of you. It is better to buy something that you can use without harming yourself. Do not buy a massive one that will be impossible to enjoy. That said, let’s see some of the best options to buy for beginners.

Dillio Chub Dong Pink 6 Inches: This dildo is great for beginners as it isn’t enormous and it has a strong base that sticks to most flat surfaces for whatever hands-free kinky action you have in mind. Not to mention that it is available in pink so you can feel more feminine even with its color! A great starting option for anyone who is looking to buy their first dildo.

Ultra Soft 7.4 Inches Dildo: This soft and realistic dildo is perfect to start training your muscles and stretching yourself. It is made out of soft plastic that will ease the process of pleasuring yourself. The softness in combination with its width of it makes it an excellent choice for newcomers. It has also a base that you can either stick on a surface or add to a strapon harness for when you have someone to play with!

Don’t Forget the Lube!

Not only when you are playing with toys, but even when you are only using your fingers to stimulate yourself, lube is essential. You might think you don’t need it, but believe me, you do. Without lube, reaching your prostate becomes from blissful experience to something very close to suffering. The worst part is that you may be discouraged from trying again to reach climaxes like never before. And even if it sounds boring, once you start looking on the sex shops’ sites, you will find different kinds of lube. Some you will find funny, but I’m sure your mind will get fixed on the idea of trying at least some. There are as many variants of this item as there are people, and each adds its own “flavor” to the experience! Since lube is the thing you will be using the most, might as well review them all!

Taking Care of Your Toys

Lastly, I want to talk about taking care of your intimate toys. Because it is something that will be in close contact with you, in very sensitive regions, we should do all we can to prevent infections and other problems. Wash your toys thoroughly with neutral soap and hot water to remove any bacteria that may be there. Even if you just got it and it is your first use. Once you are done using it, once again you should clean it in the same manner. You can also use alcohol to disinfect the surface. Dry it out very carefully, and store it somewhere safe, clean, and private. Pro tip: use kitchen film wrap to store your toys once dried. This way you will be sealing them hermetically, and nothing, not even air will get there!

That’s enough of me talking about sex toys. It is time you go online and look for whatever awakes your interest the most! Remember to be cautious not only with the products and manufacturers but also with sizes! If you have doubts regarding any product, you can either contact the vendor or ask online if anyone has any experience with that particular product.