Benefits and Things to Learn from Crossdressing

In a world that still has a lot to mature yet, especially on tolerance, it’s not easy living outside some standards. Being a crossdresser/trans/non-bi may awaken uncertainties, doubts, and anxiety. Even misguided guilt is a common feeling in this beautiful and amazing community. This is especially true for males who want to feel, dress, and be more feminine. At the same time, women had been using masculine clothes for years. But being a MtF crossdresser has a lot of benefits, and you can learn a lot of things.

 Being more empathetic, clean, and neat, for instance.

These are some of the traits that materialize when you start dressing and enjoying this feminine path.

In this post, you are going to find out some of the things that you learned being a MtF crossdresser.

Let’s all delve into this wonderful world where we can live the best of both worlds while learning and growing as more tolerant people.

Read on and discover the wonders of the crossdressing world!

Living in the “Inbetween”

Masculinity and femininity are both sides of the same coin.

It is perhaps a little outdated to think that one is devoid of the other.

These traits, which are inborn in ourselves as humans, are best enjoyed without regard for what others would think.

Being a crossdresser doesn’t mean that the person wishes to live as a woman full-time or identifies as the opposite gender.

It literally means that the person enjoys the use of clothes designed for the other sex.

But in philosophy, it means much more.

It is in connection with the deepest feelings of oneself and others.

It means taking care of the mind and body, presenting to others in the best way, being attentive to details, and many more things.

In many places around the world, it is very difficult for people that don’t fit within the heteronormativity.

And a very peculiar case happens with crossdressers.

It is an amalgamation of likes and feelings that makes it difficult for outsiders to put a pin on it and understand it.

And even more difficult to come out without risking a negative reaction that will hurt our feelings.

Of course, with love, patience, and understanding, we may overcome any situation.

If you are thinking of coming out to your partner, I recommend you read this post).

But it isn’t all bad, and you should know this better than anyone.

Crossdressing also comes with great advantages and opportunities that nurture us as persons.

The following is a list of things that you learn along this path.

By far complete, I would like you to comment below on what is missing here. Without further ado, let’s get down to it!

Becoming More Empathetic Through Details

Being a crossdresser means that you enjoy feminine activities such as knitting, using makeup, wearing “women’s” clothes like lingerie or skirts, cooking, etc.

Doing all these activities requires special attention to detail like no other.

Whether it is making sure all the threads knitted are well done, the smells and flavors in your dish are well mixed and balanced, or choosing the right outfit to look your best.

Femininity comes with a particular appreciation of little things that make the whole picture.

That’s why I believe that allowing yourself to be feminine and embarking on this path (although if you are here, you probably have already) develops a particular sense of appreciation of the world that surrounds us.

This aspect is not limited to inanimate objects or things; it extends to include people, animals, and nature in general.

When you start noticing details in your everyday life, you will realize how others are feeling by just looking at them and their expressions.

This doesn’t mean that you are a foolproof lie detector.

Being more in touch with your feelings and needs will help you understand and feel what others are feeling or thinking.

Not only that but it also will help you develop a more honest and deep relationship with women.

As you know a little better what they go through in their everyday life, you will become more empathetic.

I really believe that abolishing the taboo of crossdressing would help society on many fronts.

Besides a more tolerant community, I think that an individual allows a deeper understanding of oneself and others.

A trait often associated with masculinity is being relentless without putting much thought into it.

But femininity expands our limits to not only become relentless if we need to but also gives us the capacity to interpret the world and people around us better to know when we are being petulant instead of pursuing our dreams and desires with the passion of our hearts.

Boosting Your Imagination

Being able to keep in touch with your feminine side exposes you to a wide variety of feelings, experiences, and points of view.

If you have any artistic inclination at all, whether it is enjoying art in any way or creating it, this will open up a whole new world.

All these thoughts and honest exposure to the world around you will inspire new ways to express yourself through your art.

You will have a broader spectrum of feelings, ideas, and sensitivity that will boost your imagination and creativity.

Of course, it will also allow you to comprehend and appreciate better art in all its forms.

Taking Better Care of Yourself

Given the differences between the male and female anatomy, trying to look good “en femme” requires attention to one’s health.

It means not only paying attention to what you eat, but also to your fitness.

Sometimes, it’s harder depending on the situation, but I believe that every crossdresser out there is trying to look and feel good at all times.

And, of course, that leads to better eating habits and exercising to highlight feminine traits like your hips.

The great thing about this is that it all comes naturally and almost effortlessly.

This philosophy extends naturally and will not only keep our bodies healthy but also our minds.

Eating well and doing any kind of physical activities that drive us closer to our dreams will keep us in a better mood and with a healthier mind.

Like I said before, the crossdressing life comes with great personal benefits.

I only wish that more people would have the capacity to see and understand this.

If you don’t know how to start exercising to enhance those feminine traits of your body, here and here, you can find two very fun, easy, and short routines to get you started in no time from the comfort of your home.

And, of course, the Most Beautiful Clothes

The first contact that every crossdresser had at whatever age was through feminine clothes.

The enthralling looks, feels, and variety that are present in the so called “women’s clothes” are sure a key component to this lifestyle.

Accepting one person’s tastes is fundamental to enjoying life and being happy.

And the biggest problem today is that sometimes it is hard to find acceptance from our pairs.

But being able to wear whatever you like is a declaration of self-love.

We can all agree that many styles and fabrics are almost exclusive to feminine stores, but we don’t really care about it, right?

If there’s one thing that all crossdressers enjoy is the feel, looks, and touch of garments like lingerie, skirts, dresses, leggings, and the list goes on and on.

Besides, handling delicate items like lingerie will also give you the knowledge of how to clean every item of clothing properly.

This will expand your clothes lifespan, a very useful skill in your everyday life.

It is key that you find within yourself the courage to accept that you are not wrong or mistaken; the rest of the world is.

Why would we deprive ourselves of a simple and relaxing activity that’s not hurting anyone?

Perhaps the best thing about being a crossdresser is the capacity to enjoy this kind of clothing without regard.

Feminine clothes are so cute and comfortable that it’s a shame that most people still think the way they do.

Be true to yourself and your feelings, and I’m sure you’ll find the fulfilling happiness that every human being deserves.

As you can see, there are a lot of benefits to this lifestyle that allow one to mature and grow as a more understanding and well-rounded person.

Of course, there may be a lot of obstacles, but that’s how life is; remember, when there’s a will, there’s a way.

Find yourself and your purpose to enjoy your life as you want.

The road to happiness may not be an easy one sometimes, but I’m sure it’s the more fulfilling way to live.

So what do you think of this? Did I miss anything important?

What have you learned during your crossdressing life?

I would love to read you down below in the comments.

We must continue to grow as a community to gain the acceptance that we desire and lose all the shame that comes with the current status quo.

I hope you liked this article, and I will be seeing you all very soon! Take good care, sweeties!!

Written by Tina Munova