Becoming the Perfect Crossdressing Slut Wife: A Comprehensive Guide

Let me tell you the most surprising thing my current husband told me. It was: ‘Hey, want to be my slut?’ I was shocked, then confused. I was already married to him. I thought I was already his exclusive slut! We both crossdress, too. It wasn’t like our sex life lacked any spice! Cause he saw me being so bewildered; he was kind enough to explain it. Basically, I fit all the requirements of being a crossdressing slut wife: I like dressing up en femme, submissive, and legally, his husband. There’s a note here, though. You can be a crossdressing slut wife to someone you’re in a committed relationship with, a.k.a. a long-term partner, or roleplay as one for a casual hookup. Very interesting, right? Well, you’re not the only one who finds it curious.

The Role of a Crossdressing Slut Wife

I didn’t have much trouble in my Crossdressing Slut Wife Training since I’m already A. A crossdresser, B. A Slut, and C. Someone’s husband (now a wife since I crossdress).

But for those who have no idea how to be one, I’ll break it down for you.

A Crossdressing Slut Wife is Free

Being a crossdressing slut wife is more than just looking like the epitome of the perfect 50s housewife. It’s more than just the apron or the fun hairdos.

It’s the comfort and liberty of being free to do whatever you want— sex included. You can be brazen, audacious, and immodest all you want.

A Crossdressing Slut Wife is Bonded

It’s not just about the physical part. When I asked my husband why he wanted us to try this play, he primarily talked me into being one for his answer.

His answer was, ‘I want to be closer to you.’

We’re already the closest we’ve been. We’re married, for Pete’s sake! But he was still actively looking for ways to discover more of me.

So I thought, I also want to discover more of me and, in the process, discover more of him.

This kind of bonding isn’t something you’ll expect when someone asks you to be their slut— but here I am.

A Crossdressing Slut Wife Understands Desire

Believe it or not, being a crossdressing slut wife is also an emotional adventure. It’s good to be shameless and do all the dirty stuff you want to do during sex.

But after the high? I recall my most embarrassing requests and how lowly they made me feel.

I even asked myself— am I actually this deprived? Perverted? Good thing my husband’s always there to assure me that no, I’m not some disgusting pervert.

I’m just exploring the whole of me, including the ‘debased’ version of me.

Emotionally, it’s a huge weight off your shoulders once you understand that you can separate the version of you the world sees and the version of you your lover accepts and loves so thoroughly.

Preparing for the Transformation

Hopefully, I’ve helped you overcome any innate guilt you may feel when trying out to be a crossdressing slut wife.

Once you’re ready mentally and emotionally, you’re now ready to fully transform.

In the Wardrobe

The sluttiest of sluts don’t wear anything and just wait to be devoured. But we’re crossdressers— we still need to have something on to play that fantasy!

Lingerie

When choosing what to wear, think scanty revealing clothes— literal pieces of clothing like sexy garter belts, thin bralettes, and lacy panties!

Men in lingerie will always be a sight to behold, right? Nipple pasties can be fun, too; just remember to shave your nipples to avoid any ouchies.

Nighties and babydolls are excellent if you want to pretend to be ‘shy’ at first. If you want more coverage, the classic little black dress (a.k.a. LBD) and bodycon will never fail you.

Makeup

As a fellow crossdresser, I know you’re not new to elevating your facial features through makeup.

When you’re a slut, you can play it up and do the smokiest eye you can and pair it with regular mascara and fake lashes.

‘Did you say regular mascara?’ Yes I did! What got my husband really into the play was when he saw my mascara running.

He loved seeing me so messy, as it was the total opposite of my usual prim appearance. Try it for yourself!

If you’re still on that ‘fake coy’ role, match your makeup with your nightclothes!

In Grooming and Hygiene

So you’re looking hot, and your makeup is on point, but… what’s that? Is that BO?! That is unacceptable!

Kidding aside, I shouldn’t need to tell you just how important grooming and hygiene are for us crossdressers. Based on your lover’s liking, prepare a checklist to see if you miss any steps.

For instance, hair removal? Totally up to you. Your husband may prefer a smooth, hairless wife. Or he may also like you to be bushy down there, nothing wrong with that!

What about skincare? Remember that runny mascara? It’s undeniable that it’s hot and got my man’s revs going.

But it can also be a pain to clean up, particularly when you’re so tired from being pounded all night. My tip is to just have some makeup wet wipes ready alongside your lubes and condoms.

If your legs can’t take you to the bathroom, you can just grab some sheets and clean the smudge off before drifting to sleep.

You can follow up with your 45-step skin routine the next morning. Or, you can let your husband bridal-carry you to the bath! Ain’t that sweet?

Captivating Your Partner

With all that prepping, I’m sure you can already wrap your husband around your little pinky. But as a crossdressing slut wife, you can’t be satisfied with him being attracted to you.

You need to make him go crazy over you that your partner will do whatever you want.

Becoming (More) Submissive

Remove the notion that submissives can’t demand anything from their dominants. Doing this is pretty easy, particularly if your demands are also what your husband wants.

Your husband will drive the sex, yes. But you’ll gas him up until he forgets to keep his foot on the brakes.

Slut 101: Always be ready to please! Kiss your husband’s ass (figuratively) by saying things like:

• ‘I’m here to do whatever you want me to, sir.’
• ‘I need you so bad…’
• ‘I can’t take it anymore, please…’
• ‘I’m all yours, do whatever you want…”

Reminder: Always say these in a purr or seductive tone so your husband really gets what you mean.

Communication in Bed

A crosdressing slut wife doesn’t need flowery words. Just be straightforward with what you want. Be explicit! You’re supposed to be bold and shameless.

No decorum here for sluts! Plus, when you say exactly what you mean, your husband doesn’t need to waste time second-guessing.

Phrases like ‘Please put that  big cock in me now…’ (Alternatively: ‘Please let me fuck you…’) make you sound desperate, sometimes even pathetic. Guess what? That’s exactly what you should aim for!

Improving Your Sexual Skills

Being a crossdressing slut wife means you have to keep your husband happy. And he won’t be happy if you just do the same things and make your sexy times a routine!

I’m sure you’ll be bored of it too. So, always have some surprises ready up your sleeves.

Don’t Overlook Foreplay

Don’t treat it as just a bland warm-up. Use your hands, lips, and that shakable hips and bum of yours to drive your husband wild before the main event.

Do a strip tease, grind on him a little, do things that make your husband go feral.

Plus, don’t be stingy with your gasps and moans! You’re a slut, remember? Think like you’re on the casting couch of a porn flick!

Try Many Roleplaying Scenarios

Roleplaying is fun and practical cause you’ll never run out of things to playact.

These fantasies can range from simple or domestic fantasies (like the crossdressing slut wife wearing only a frilly apron while cooking) or more unconventional desires (such as caging the slut wife).

Best slut roleplays include:

• A crossdressing slut wife’s husband doesn’t pay attention to her needs. Can you blame her if she asks the delivery man to come in to ‘rest’? Someone snitches on her, and her husband finally gives her his attention and some hard punishment!

• A crossdressing slut wife’s military husband finally comes home after months on duty! She needs to show him just how much she missed him!

• A crossdressing wife needs to learn how to be a slut. Her husband hires a professional trainer just for her.

Important Reminders

It’s easy to get lost in the pleasure of being a crossdressing slut wife. So, I have to remind you of a few things:

Setting and Honoring Boundaries

You and your lover need to know what’s a turn-on and what’s a turn-off. Talk about it, be open, and agree on the dos and don’ts.

Respect each other’s limits. If you want, you can also be clear on what limits you want your lover to cross once you’re doing the playact.

Finding a Balance Between Everyday Life and Roleplay

Switching between your everyday self and your role as a slut wife can be tricky. But it is still fun all the same.

One minute, you’re making dinner, and the next, you’re en femme, ready to get lucky. Just balance it all out. Keep your roleplay and everyday life separate.

To keep things balanced, plan your racy times. Maybe pick a night or two a week to dive into your X-rated role.

This helps you not mix up your personas too much. This way, both your everyday life and roleplay stay fresh and exciting.

Maintaining a Healthy Balance in Your Relationship

First, keep communication open. Talk about what’s working and what’s not. It’s super important that both parties are happy.

Nobody wants to do something they don’t like, right?

Second, make sure you still do regular stuff together as a couple. Go for walks, watch a movie, or cook together.

These things keep your relationship strong. It’s not all about what you do on the bed.