BBW Anal 101: A Beginner’s Guide for Crossdressers

I’ve recently met new friends at a convention who introduced me to an interesting kink: BBW. As a crossdresser, I’ve thought about how I can turn into a Big, Beautiful Woman and do anal play. Turns out, it isn’t that hard at all!

Anal play is an exciting exploration for naturally plump crossdressers. Even if you’re not a naturally plus-sized crossdresser, you can wear a silicone bodysuit with anal hole to do this play! There are many new sensations to discover with BBW anal. Not to mention the intimacy it promises if you do it with your lover.

Are you curious about pursuing this BBW journey? If you don’t know where to start, don’t worry. I made this comprehensive guide for my fellow BBW crossdressing curious cats!

What Does BBW Mean?

BBW stands for Big, Beautiful Woman. Though it’s common in NSFW sites and BDSM community forums, BBW is slowly turning into a movement. BBW puts fuller-figured ladies (and MtF crossdressers) in the limelight.

I see BBW as a term that salutes all body shapes and sizes. It’s a great way to promote body positivity and self-love! For many, BBW represents a different kind of beauty. It’s fully embracing yourself as you— no matter what the old ‘beauty standards’ may be.

If you’re a BBW, know that you deserve to feel beautiful, no matter your pants size!

What’s the BBW Attraction?

I find myself attracted to the BBW aesthetic for several reasons. There’s something incredibly appealing about being unapologetically you, inside or out! It’s comforting to know that there are people who could care less about society’s ‘You shoulds.’

‘You should be smaller, thinner. Eat less. Exercise more.’ — You get my drift?

It’s amazing that there are people who can still be feminine. Even if many around them consider them ‘not feminine enough’ because of their size. I don’t identify as BBW myself, but I wholeheartedly respect their bravery. I love to explore what they feel in their bodies. Fortunately, I can do this with a silicone bodysuit.

Engaging in “BBW anal” as a crossdresser can be liberating. I’ve had my share of moments where I felt nervous but excited. I not only explore new sensations. I also get to challenge my perceptions of beauty and desirability.

Risks of BBW Anal

While there are many fun aspects to BBW anal, it’s not 100% safe. This is something I expected since BBW falls under BDSM. When you already know the BDSM rules, the other good news is it’s easy to avoid these risks!

BBW with caution means you should:

● Weight: You (BBW) and your lover need to be mindful of weight distribution during anal play. Research proper positioning to avoid discomfort or injury.

● Inexperience: If you’re new, don’t jump into BBW play just because. It’ll lead to awkward situations! Take your time to learn the ropes first.

● Hygiene Issues: Without proper hygiene practices, there’s a risk of infections. This isn’t just for BBW anal play, but it’s a must-have reminder nonetheless.

● Physical Discomfort: Not everyone’s body reacts the same way. Especially so if you’re full-figured! On top of that, there’s always the risk of discomfort during anal. Always listen to your body and stop if something feels wrong.

BBW Preparation

No matter the play, you should be mentally and emotionally prepared first. A mix of excitement and nervousness is common.

When I first wore a silicone bodysuit with an anal hole, I felt foreign. I was literally in a new body— of course I would feel weird! But since I was in the right headspace, it’s easier to be immersed in the BBW kink play.

If you have any fears or doubts, be open with your lover. I remembered how intense the emotions can get during such intimate moments. This doubles if you’re trying a new kink. Talk it through with your lover, discuss any limits, desires, and others.

This mental and emotional preparation sets the stage for a fun and exciting BBW anal experience. Other preps you should do:

Gathering Supplies

Like all anal play, you can’t just go bareback and forego lubricants. This is no magical porn show. The better type of lube, whether you’re a natural BBL or wearing a silicone bodysuit, is water-based. The best type is a long-lasting, water-based lubes.

After dealing with the lubes you need to keep in your bedside table, think of toys next. Anal toys help a lot for stretching and lower risk of injury. Have fun choosing your plug, beads, and more! Depending on your experience, feel free to explore.

Another essential is a good cleaning solution. Get those made for the toys you picked. Other basic necessities are towels, tissues, and some spare clothing.

Basic Cleanliness Tips

To feel your best, clean yourself before BBW play.

● Always take a shower before any sexual play. You want to feel fresh and smell heavenly!

● If you feel the need, a gentle enema. BBW anal is anal play after all. Be cautious and don’t overdo it!

● Make sure all your toys and tools are clean before use. If it has been a long while, double-clean just to be sure. Say no possible infections in every way!

● Going bareback shouldn’t be a random decision. Always wear protection! It’s not wrong to always be cautious. Plus, it’s more hygienic and convenient to wrap a condom.

● After the session, clean yourself again and your toys thoroughly.

How to Get in Your Silicone Bodysuit

If you’re a crossdresser who needs to get into their BBW bodysuit, you know it can be challenging. (But it’s still worth it!) Here’s how I do it:

1. I prepare my ‘changing’ space. I like my room warm, not hot! When my room’s chilly, the suit can stick to my skin. Plus, I also need all the space I can get, so I make sure no random thing is on the floor that can make me lose balance.

2. Before I start wiggling myself in, I apply a little lubricant on my skin and inside the bodysuit. This helps me slide into it more easily.

3. I start with my feet. One foot first, then another. I take my time, so should you! Never pull too hard.

4. Once my foot is in, I slowly pull the bodysuit up my leg. I do this one leg at a time.

5. Getting the hips in is next. It’s important to stretch it but not too much. Wiggle a bit if you must but remain gentle!

6. Then, I pull the bodysuit up to my waist and adjust it around my torso. This part can be snug, so do deep breaths to relax.

7. The last step is sliding my arms into the sleeves of the bodysuit.

8. Once I’m all suited up, I take a moment to adjust everything. Check for any areas that might need smoothing out!

If ever you get out of breath during any step, take a break.

BBW Safety Tips

Doing BBW anal is exciting— but it’s crucial to understand the safety tips that come with this choice.

Safety also involves knowing how to move the BBW body effectively. For instance, the anal area can be sensitive. So it’s a no-no to just thrust without thinking. Rough play is nice, but let your body adjust to it first!

So, preparation is very important. You must have the right items on hand. When you do, you and your lover can focus on connecting instead of worrying about potential issues.

Most importantly, communication is still very much the key here. Always chat about boundaries and desires openly.

Other safety tips you’ll appreciate:

● Use a lot— and I mean a lot— of lube. Be generous about it!

● Know you and your lover’s bodies. Pay attention to any possible discomfort. If something feels off or painful, don’t hesitate to stop or adjust.

● Start slow and don’t rush! Ease into things gradually. Your body won’t adjust to it positively if you force it to accept something new.

● Focus on your breathing. It helps relax your body and mind so you can enjoy it better.

● Stay hydrated! Drink water before and after to keep yourself hydrated.

Building BBW Confidence

Confidence is BBW’s greatest weapon! This is true for those with BBW kinks are well. You must know how to make your BBW partner or BBW self feel and look confident!

Encouraging body positivity starts with a mindset shift. Reminding others of their worth not defined by size is crucial. Acknowledge that everyone’s body is different and that’s what makes us all intriguing.

Let your BBW friends share their experiences too. Actively join conversations that highlight self-love and acceptance.

When it comes to exploring intimacy, wearing a silicone bodysuit has taught me the importance of confidence in the bedroom. I encourage others to step into their power and own their experiences, especially when it comes to BBW anal play.

By embracing this body, I’ve discovered new levels of pleasure and connection. It’s all about letting go of insecurities and enjoying every moment.