A Healthy Femboy Is a Happy Femboy

Howdy to y’all, lovelies! In my many years of relationship with my feminine side, I’ve come across a lot of emotions. Mostly blissful feelings and sensations, and many sad and discouraging ones, to say the least. Some of the latter was because of the environment and traditional standards, but a surprising lot because of my peers.

This is not because I haven’t met amazing people in the community that welcomed me with arms wide open. These sad moments were provoked, and still are, because I have seen many that take this lifestyle to unhealthy extremes. This article is dedicated to all the crossdressers, fem-boys, and sissies to help them healthily channel their femininity.

Accepting Yourself

I think there is a lesson we all must learn to have a happy and fulfilling life. LOVE YOURSELF! This doesn’t mean bragging about yourself or building a personality around something you are not. The first step to incorporate this in your everyday life is learning that we are all humans. This means that we all have desires and backgrounds (many of them are far from good), and we are all capable of love and need to be loved. Traditions, norms, and even laws can dictate the lifestyles of individuals but can’t change their desires. All of these not only “condemn” people to ordinary life but creates a heavy burden for many that don’t fit the norm. Despite things looking up on the acceptance and gender front, we still have a lot to go. I have seen how many feel a dangerous feeling of unworthiness that can lead to a perilous path.

The Power of Femininity

It comes as little surprise that this general emotion is more frequent in more restrictive laws and traditions. And almost certainly lots of misogyny. This cocktail makes many afraid, ashamed, or at least private about their desires. Being overlooked and disrespected are some of the most common problems women have been dealing with and still fight for today. In regions where this is the panorama, there are low chances a crossdresser or a femboy can be happy with their environment, especially in a small town. As adorers of femininity, I believe we should not only feel empowered as well but learn from the movement and adhere to it. And even though the union makes us stronger, we must begin with ourselves. Do not take yourself for granted or live repressed. Once we drive strength from this source of power, many unthinkable opportunities appear.

Elegance and Patience As Part of Your Feminine Essence

This world ain’t built for the many anxious people out there. And one of the worst feelings for them is “making up for lost time”. And many find these feminine desires later in life, or it is only then that they can experience them as desired. So it is pretty normal that many submerge in this lifestyle in a rush and without proper care. And when we embark on any path like this one, we first must know that we must have patience. Understand that the best things in life do not come without a fight. Learning a new way to understand and feel life is not something that can be done overnight. If there is a lesson to be learned about the millennia of proper feminine manners is being patient. A trait that leads inevitably to elegance. Do not bind your feminine energy to something that can do harm or be negative for you!

Channel Your Energy and Reach Your Potential!

Regardless of your current situation, even if sometimes it is hard to see, there is a way you can channel your feminine energy positively and productively. One thing to look up to for motivation is perhaps a character or an inspiring role model as a compass. I’m sure you all have one or two, but perhaps it is also time to watch a lot of girly flicks! These kinds of movies will expose you to more complex emotions, but for me, the best part is the design of the outfits! Not only will you find lots of strong feminine characters to inspire you in your path, but also many outfit and style ideas! Betting for a healthy feminine lifestyle will pay off even more in the long term. Of course, everyone is unique, but here on this blog, we often write activities to connect with your feminine side to fit all!

Connect With the Community

The social aspect is essential for a healthy and happy life. I have seen many fearful members of the community that find it hard to engage in social activities. Of course, the availability of these varies from a lot to none in some areas. But luckily, for the time being, we can still connect through the internet. It is ideal for taking your first steps with like-minded people that will make you see you are not alone.

Always remember that you should be very cautious with what you share online. Not everyone may have the opportunity to meet in real life at the moment with others, but I’m sure if you want to, you will have your chance. In the meantime, interact with other people that channel their femininity in a positive life-changing way. There are a dozen good social apps to do so, many of which we have written on this blog!

However, you choose to connect and experience femininity is up to you. The important thing is you do so in a positive way! This will make you synergize your feminine energy with a better and everlasting relationship with it! I would love to read what are your favorite ways to connect with your femininity! Let me know in the comments below! Good things take time, as do connect or reconnecting with your femme self! Remember not to rush things and enjoy the beautiful landscapes riding the femme train! And that’s all for today’s article! See you all soon!