10 Things that Make You Less Attractive (MTF Transformation Tips)

As MTF crossdressers, we can’t afford to misbehave or act up. We need to remember that we represent the opposite sex and should act accordingly.

Many things make us less attractive as closet queens. For instance, poor table manners, being too loud, or not paying attention to our appearance. If we want to succeed in our MTF transformations, we need to avoid these things at all costs!

Below are some of the things that make you less attractive!

1. Dry or cracked lips

This is a big no-no for drag queens. Your lips should look plump and inviting, not dry and cracked. Dry and cracked lips are unappealing, and they can also be painful. Use lip balm or Vaseline to keep your lips moisturized and avoid this issue.

In most cases, dry and cracked lips result from dehydration. Make sure you’re drinking plenty of water throughout the day to keep your lips hydrated from the inside out. In addition to lip balm or Vaseline, consider using a humidifier in your home to help combat dryness in the air.

2. Dirty or untrimmed nails

Another thing that can make you less attractive as a drag queen is having dirty or untrimmed nails. Make sure to keep your nails clean and trimmed to look neat and polished. This small detail can make a big difference in your overall look.

I recommend trimming the nails every two weeks and doing a manicure every four weeks. This will help keep your nails looking their best. You can also use clear polish to help protect your nails from chipping and breaking.

If you want to have long, beautiful nails, then make sure to take care of them! It’s worth the effort to have stunning nails that complement your overall look as an MtF crossdresser.

3. Crossing your arms

When you cross your arms, you look closed off and unapproachable. Instead, keep your arms open or hold them at your sides to appear more feminine, open, and inviting.

As an MTF crossdresser, you don’t want to send the wrong signals. Keep your arms at your sides or open to show you’re approachable and inviting. This simple change will make a big difference in how people perceive you when in character.

There are a few ways to keep your arms at your sides. You can either hold them loosely at your sides or put them in your pockets.

Keeping your arms at your sides has many benefits. It makes you look more relaxed and inviting, which is great if you’re trying to make new friends. It also makes you look more confident and self-assured. And it can help to accentuate your curves, which is always a plus!

So next time you’re out and about, remember to keep your arms at your sides. It’s the best way to show off your confidence.

4. Poor table manners

Table manners are essential for anyone, but they’re crucial for closet queens and sissy maids. You want to make sure you have good table manners, so you don’t come off as unrefined or uncouth.

As an MTF crossdresser, you want to pass as a woman, and part of passing is having good manners. Table manners are essential because they’re one of the first things people notice about you. If you have bad table manners, it’s going to be obvious, and it’s going to make people think you’re not a proper lady.

So, what are some things you should do to ensure you have good table manners?

First of all, always sit up straight. Not only will this make you look more ladylike, but it will also help you avoid back pain later on.

Second, always use a napkin. This shows that you’re clean and well-mannered.

Third, never put your elbows on the table. This isn’t polite.

Fourth, chew with your mouth closed. No one wants to see your food while you chew.

Fifth, refrain from making too much noise while eating.

Sixth, don’t reach for things that are out of your reach. If you need something, ask the person next to you to pass it to you.

Seventh, wait until everyone at the table gets food before you start eating.

Eighth, don’t drink too much alcohol. It’s OK to have a wine or champagne, but getting drunk is not ladylike behavior.

When you’re finished eating, place your knife and fork on your plate in the “resting position.” The knife should be pointing to the left, and the fork should be pointing to the right.

Finally, don’t forget to say “please” and “thank you.” These two words go a long way in showing good manners.

If you follow these tips, you’ll have good table manners. Remember, it’s essential to have good manners as a closet queen because it will help you pass as a lady. So, make sure you mind your manners at all times!

5. Lack of sleep

Getting enough sleep is crucial for crossdresser and drag queens. Not only does it help you look rested and refreshed, but it also helps improve your mood and energy levels. Try to get at least 7-8 hours of sleep every night to look and feel your best.

As closet queens, we often don’t get enough sleep. Most times, we stay up late watching RuPaul’s Drag Race, and then we’re up early getting ready for our day. This can lead to a vicious cycle of fatigue and lack of motivation.

If you’re not getting enough sleep, it’s time to make some changes. Here are a few tips to help you get the shut-eye you need:

1) Go to bed and get up at a particular time each day, even on weekends. This will help regulate your body’s natural sleep rhythm.

2) Create a relaxing bedtime routine. Take a warm bath, read a book, or do some light stretching before turning in for the night.

3) Make sure your bedroom is quiet and relaxed. This will create an environment that is conducive to sleep.

4) Avoid caffeine and alcohol before bed. Both of these substances can interfere with your ability to get a good night’s sleep.

You can get the sleep you need to feel your best by following these tips!

6. Pulling the diva act

We’re known for being divas as closet queens, but there’s a fine line between being a diva and being rude. Make sure you don’t come off as too demanding or entitled, or else people will start to find you less attractive.

How do you know someone is pulling the diva act? This happens when she’s the one who’s always demanding attention, never seems to be satisfied, and always has to have her way. If you’re starting to feel like people see you as a diva, it’s time to reel it in.

To avoid appearing bad as an MTF crossdresser, try to:

Stop making demands and learn to be patient

Don’t expect people to cater to your every whim

Be grateful for what you have, and don’t take things for granted

Realize that not everything is about you

If you can learn to dial back the diva act, you’ll find that people are much more receptive to you. So, the next time you’re feeling diva-ish, remember these tips and try to reign it in.

7. An unnaturally high-pitched voice

A lot of drag queens speak in a higher-pitched voice, but it’s important to make sure it doesn’t sound unnatural. If your voice sounds too high-pitched, it can come across as fake and annoying.

As crossdressers, you don’t want to sound irritating, so make sure your voice sounds natural. A good way to practice is by recording yourself and then listening back. If it sounds fake, then keep practicing until it doesn’t!

8. The way you smell

This is an important one for MTF crossdressers. You want to make sure you smell nice, so people don’t get turned off by you. Wear a light perfume or cologne, and make sure you don’t have a bad body odor.

Sometimes our bodies also produce more sweat when we are nervous. In this case, try carrying some tissues with you and discretely wiping your underarms if necessary. If possible, avoid eating foods that make you sweat more than usual before going out (for example, spicy food).

Also, remember to keep your breath fresh by brushing your teeth and using mouthwash regularly. Nothing is worse than talking to someone with bad breath!

9. Not being able to walk in your feminine shoes

This is a common issue for MtF crossdressers. If you can’t walk in your heels, it makes you look clumsy and uncoordinated. Practice walking in your heels so you can avoid this issue.Ensure that your shoes fit well and are comfortable. If you can’t walk in them, don’t wear them!

Pick the right shoe for the occasion. Heels are not always appropriate, especially if you will be walking long distances or dancing more.

Practice walking in your heels at home before wearing them out in public. Get used to the feel of the heels and how they change your balance. Walk slowly and deliberately at first, and then you can speed up as you get more comfortable.

Avoiding obstacles will help you stay graceful while walking in your heels. Look ahead and plan your route so you can avoid things like puddles, cracks, and uneven surfaces.

If you do stumble or trip, don’t worry! Just laugh it off and keep walking.

10. Cursing

As crossdressers, including drag queens and sissy maids, we tend to use colorful language, but that doesn’t mean we should curse all the time. It’s important to know when to tone it down and use appropriate language. Otherwise, people will start to find us less attractive.

There are many things that make us less attractive as MTF crossdressers. Poor table manners, being too loud, not taking care of our appearance, and wearing the wrong clothes are just some of the things that can turn people off.

If you want to be more attractive, it’s important to be aware of these things and make sure you avoid them. Avoiding the mistakes highlighted above will go a long way in making you more attractive to others.